Why do partners lie
By jugsjugs
@jugsjugs (12967)
August 16, 2009 8:23pm CST
If you knew your partner was telling you a lie about joining a date site him saying that it was not him as his friend had made him do it 5 years ago then you saw he had joined 2 out of more than 2 handfulls of adult type of site to meet up with others for adult fun then you found that they did not admit to it how would you feel? Would you trust them after the first lie or what? Why do they lie when they have been caught right out thanks to the history on a pc.??
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4 responses
@suparnodatta (362)
• India
17 Aug 09
Well some truths are just tough to handle.Thats why we have to lie sometimes.Everyone lies at some point or the other,it may be to his partner or someone else.What you have to understand is its really tough for a boy to admit that i am a member of a adult site to his girlfriend.She might get hurt ,it can even damage the relationship.So we usually hide this facts and hope to get away with it.
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@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
17 Aug 09
this is really damaging to a relationship. lying and dishonesty are ingredients for the dissolution of trust and the foundation of relationship. once it is shaken or collapsed, things will never be the same again. it has to be built up on a new foundation, much stronger. once you catch a partner on his/her dishonesty, try not to judge his/her actions. simply point out the facts and actions s/he did. allow him/her to say sorry for that. then, be prepared of the hurts it will cause you.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
17 Aug 09
Hi, i am sure that 99% from man lie about this, just because man don t care to much if theirs woman catch them, and is hard to admit that they are just lies.
I am sure that all man lie about this, in a way or other, they want just have fun to net, nothing more, they lie when say that are involved in serious relations.
