sign in • sign up
web | myLot | discussions | tasks | blogs | news | photos
homeinterestsdiscussionstasksblogsnewsmessages friendsphotosearningsmyLotquizzes

how often do you give? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 85/100. momtrying2makeit (2363)   ranked 163 out of 2,235 in christian5 months ago

without wanting anything in return? I feel this is something I need to work on with myself. I tend to want something back and I feel I need to be more giving. So like I asked how often do you give without wanting anything in return? Do you feel like you are blessed when you give without wanting back? Let me know and happy mylotting peeps:) happy

 
 
christian
sponsors
The Church Tickets
Get The Church Tickets Find Sold Out Tickets.
www.localjobsecurity.com

Dating The Church
Get Matched to Sexy Singles in Your Area for Free! Sign-up Now.
DatingTheChurch.come-Date.com

Thanks and Giving
Give the Gift of Life This Season. Donate Now to Support St Jude.
www.StJude.org

User has not selected a best response.
tags:  give, return, giving, give and give, give without wanting back
 
1. myLot reputation of 99/100. andalond (3388)   ranked 1 out of 2,235 in christian   5 months ago

I think as a mother you give alot to your family not really expecting much in return, sometimes you might get that hug or smile in return. I have times when I give alot to friends but then there are times I keep to myself. It's really hard when economically there isn't much to give other than your time but with 5 kids sometimes that even hurts.


myLot reputation of 85/100. momtrying2makeit (2363)   ranked 163 out of 2,235 in christian  5 months ago

Boy five kids huh? It seems like a lot of people today I have been talking to have a lot of kids. I think that is great to me that is a blessing from God. And to be honest I feel the more the merrier. I know it can be hard with money but something will pull through. Take care and thanks for taking the time to respond to my discussion. Happy mylotting. happy

The Church Tickets Get The Church Tickets Find Sold Out Tickets. www.localjobsecurity.com
 
2. myLot reputation of 94/100. Lakota12 (17233)   ranked 157 out of 2,235 in christian   5 months ago

Always giving just want the people I do for appreciate it!


myLot reputation of 85/100. momtrying2makeit (2363)   ranked 163 out of 2,235 in christian  5 months ago

I feel what you mean. I think that is one reason why I have trouble giving all the time. My dad taught me a saying once I wanted to share. Do not stop giving until the Lord stops giving to you. I took it that as never stop because the lord loves people and is always giving in someway. Take care and thanks for taking the time to respond. happy


myLot reputation of 94/100. Lakota12 (17233)   ranked 157 out of 2,235 in christian  5 months ago

a very go d saying

Dating The Church Get Matched to Sexy Singles in Your Area for Free! Sign-up Now. DatingTheChurch.come-Date.com
 
3. myLot reputation of 89/100. ShirleyBillingsley (898)   ranked 637 out of 2,235 in christian   5 months ago

Yes, i can give, without getting anything in return. I recently joined a site, where there are people that need someone to be there for them. They often get advice, not always do i have cash to give out to them, but if i did, then i would certainly help some of those that are in the most desperate of situations. I do all that i can, and still, i need resources for all the different states, that help people with stuff, so that i can pass on the information to those people.


myLot reputation of 98/100. trinidadvelasco (9110)   ranked 2,218 out of 2,235 in christian  5 months ago

it is true that the things that we can give to others need not always be in terms of gifts with monetary value. those gifts with higher values done in loving care will always be appreciated by the recipient. good advices for those who have lost hopes or in deep troubles, open up for them a new avenue in life.

sharing advices is actually sharing our very being with others. this kind of sharing is most valualble. it is good for you to have been into this kind of activity somehow.

Thanks and Giving Give the Gift of Life This Season. Donate Now to Support St Jude. www.StJude.org
 
4. myLot reputation of 85/100. lumenmom (868)   ranked 335 out of 2,235 in christian   5 months ago

I actually give a lot without wanting anything in return. I found it to be more stressful and disappointing when you are expecting people to repay you or give you things because you gave to them. They ironic thing is I tend to automatically get things from other sources that I don't even ask for or expect when I am giving to others. It is a really cool experience but one that has been mentioned in the scriptures several times. They say it is better to give than to receive and I am finding that to be very true.

$387/Day Part Time Job How To Make $13,456 Every Month As Seen On CNN, NBC, Fox & CBS ProfitMiracle.com
 
5. leslie_stanfield (44)   ranked 2,117 out of 2,235 in christian   5 months ago

My husband and I give 10% of all our earnings to charity every paycheck. Also we save all our change throughout the year and put it in the Salvation Army cans you see outside all the stores around Christmas time.

The Quality of Life Group Looking For The Quality of Life Group In Your Area. Call Now. TheQualityOfLifeGroup.Local.com
 
6. myLot reputation of 91/100. grecychunny26 (5222)   ranked 738 out of 2,235 in christian   5 months ago

I give for everyday, the perfect example is my family. I provide for them,I care for them I love them. I give my whole life to them. I am not expecting that they will give back something in return, they are my family, everything I have is really for them. Like you, you are a mom, you gave your whole life to your child, do you expect to do the same of course not isn't it because you love them. About giving to others, I believe that is our purpose here on Earth, to give to those who have none and those things we haven't are provided by God, they will send other person to help us.It is like a cycle. But now I change what I believe in, I give and there is no problem if they can reward me or give it back to me, but If they will, I could be an excellent receiver, of course I will accept it.

Best Whole Life Insurance Compare Best Whole Life Insurance Quotes from Top Providers & Agents. InsureMe.com
 
7. myLot reputation of 98/100. trinidadvelasco (9110)   ranked 2,218 out of 2,235 in christian   5 months ago

to be honest with you, my friend, i believe that you have been giving so much of yourself each day without knowing it. we talk to people, we entertain people, we take care of people and many more things, without even thinking on how much effort we put into it. then, as we do it, we do not at all look forward to being compensated for it. see then how much it is that we are giving away time after time without seeking any compensation for it?

as for material things, i am sure that you have been providing for the people you love, their needs. as you do this, you have been sacrificing even some of your needs that you can let go of. then again, there is no subsequent reward for it that you are looking forward to.

my friend, it just so happens that there are times when we are not aware of how much a giver we are.

DC Child Care Services Find Washington DC area child care services at YELLOWPAGES.COM. yellowpages.com
 
8. myLot reputation of 88/100. lotterylover (4841)   ranked 60 out of 2,235 in christian   5 months ago

We set aside so much money for donations to charities each month and to the church.
IT is nice to receive as well as give. Our neighbors and I share a piece of property between us and while my wife has been doing the most of the care of that property it is nice when they return the favor and take care of our side when they take care of theirs. IT is also nice to be appreciated for doing things for the family. There are people who helped me so much while I was working that I give them gifts every year because I appreciated what they did for me. Usually, they don't thank me nor do they give a gift in return but I still give them one each year to show I still appreciate what they did. God likes for us to show him our appreciation also. Even at meetings if all the people present were to express the very same thing he still wants to hear it.

Need Child Care in Washington DC? Info on reliable child care services in Washington DC. Free checks. www.Care.com/childcare
 
9. devonsnana (2)   5 months ago

If I had unlimited resources, I'd give things much more frequently than what I'm giving now. I get such gratification when I know that the things I give really do help those in worse condition than myself. After all everything we have is on loan to us from our All Mighty Father! I'd be lying if I said I never wanted something in return; we're human beings afterall. All in all, I get more pleasure giving.

give a gift Looking for a great gift? Tell us who its for & we'll find it. www.gifts.com
 
sponsors
$387/Day Part Time Job
How To Make $13,456 Every Month As Seen On CNN, NBC, Fox& CBS
ProfitMiracle.com

The Quality of Life Group
Looking For The Quality of Life Group In Your Area. Call Now.
TheQualityOfLifeGroup.Local.com

Best Whole Life Insurance
Compare Best Whole Life Insurance Quotes from Top Providers& Agents.
InsureMe.com

similar discussions
Giving to charity
I give to some charities and especially this time of year. What makes me feel like not giving...
Do you give coins to the street children?
I used to, but nowadays I only give food like crackers, biscuits or candies. My father used to...
Is it REALLY BETTER to GIVE than TO RECEIVE?
It is a common practice in our family. Giving rather than Receiving. Whenever we hear tragic...
Where Are My Old Cloths
Have you ever imagine the number of people that do not have something to wear or put on Where do...
Do you always forgive those who asked you for forgiveness?
Sometimes giving forgiveness depends on what the person did to you. It's hard to give forgiveness...
its better to give than to receive..!!!
are you these kinda person..your happy to share things what you have than always recieve from...
depacco ptr..
do anybody knows about depacco?I just saw the site awhile ago and it said that they will give...
Where you belong?
Would you agree with me, if I will say that there's only two reasons why we give? First we give...
You want to give them all of you..
You just want to be with the one you love. You want to hold them in your arms. Let the world just...
Does anyone use freecycle?
I've been a member of freecycle for over 6 years. I joined in different states when we lived there....
sponsors
$387/Day Part Time Job
How To Make $13,456 Every Month As Seen On CNN, NBC, Fox & CBS
ProfitMiracle.com
The Quality of Life Group
Looking For The Quality of Life Group In Your Area. Call Now.
TheQualityOfLifeGroup.Local.com
Best Whole Life Insurance
Compare Best Whole Life Insurance Quotes from Top Providers & Agents.
InsureMe.com
DC Child Care Services
Find Washington DC area child care services at YELLOWPAGES.COM.
yellowpages.com
Need Child Care in Washington DC?
Info on reliable child care services in Washington DC. Free checks.
www.Care.com/childcare
give a gift
Looking for a great gift? Tell us who its for & we'll find it.
www.gifts.com
Chariot of Fire
Elijah's defeat of Jezebel shows us how to triumph over evil today.
shulamite.com
Church History: Read the Book Online
"What the Church Ought to Be" - Read online, the book about Church History, Ekklesia, and Church democracy.
www.whatthechurchoughttobe.com
Free Book: The Church Jesus Built
What happened to the Church Jesus built? Find out now in free book.
www.gnmagazine.org/church
Washington People Search
Find Your Soulmate & True Love. Get Matched on Compatibility Profile.
Singles-Date.com/WashingtonPeople
return to mylot
We are loading a word from our sponsors. No thanks, cancel loading.