What would you do if you find out that your spouse is cheating on you with .....

Tell the truth i know you would slap your spouse in theface.

Commenting from the arm chair is easy than facing the situation. So better leave it at that.

maybe you are right. It is easier to talk when you are not yet in the battle but when you reach in the war you don't have an idea what you would do although you prepared already for the situation. maybe you wont have the hearth to do what is to be done.

If my spouse is cheating on me, then either there's something wrong with the marriage or that's just the kind of person he is. If there's something wrong with the marriage and it's something we can work on, then I'm willing to forgive and work on making our marriage work. If he's just a cheater and doesn't like to be tied down to one person, then I don't think I can be in a relationship like that and our marriage is over. As for my friend, she knew what she was doing! If she has no self-control, then what's to stop her from sleeping with my spouse in the future! It should go without saying that you don't even sleep with your best friend's husband or wife. And I don't want to be friends with someone that does that. Now, if they just honestly fell in love with each other and they're meant to be together, then fine! I wish them both the best, but I don't think I could be friends with either of them after that.

So if it is the marriage and your spouse stated that you cant satisfy him/her enough. So he/she just started to something with your best friend when she came over and you weren't there. Your friend did not mean to do it. It might just happen. You can never know. example. its easy for me to look in a girl eyes and hypnotize her. What i mean is that a few weeks ago i stared in a girls eyes and the girl suddenly kiss me and to know her boy friend was right beside of her. She said she did not know how it happen and to know that, that same girl did not want to be in a relationship with me ever. It happened more than once. But i have stop doing it after i met my trusting girlfriend. What i am trying to say is that somethings are hard to control

You know it could be that your spouse force on your friend. Maybe your friend could not control himself. Have you ever heard the saying there are nothing better than friends, keep your friends and cherish them? So you are telling me you are putting someone you just meet(spouse) in front of someone you met and know along time ago (best friend)?

Yes, why would you beat them up? What would it prove? What would it solve? If your spouse or girlfriend or boyfriend is more interested in their new lover, then good riddance. It takes two to break up a marriage. Getting yourself into trouble or into jail would only give them the chance to be together anyway. |But at least you got rid of someone who does not love you either way. I have been married for 33 years and we both have been through trials and tribulations but still know better. and still together. You can't make someone love you or keep them loving you.

So you divorce everything might still not go your way. You might be the one who get everything lost. People might also see you as soft as i did not hear you say you would hurt any of them. I t only sound like you wold just kick her out of the house and forget everything that happened.