if your dear ones ill serious,did you abandon them?
By bingchen
@bingchen (1119)
China
August 22, 2009 8:10am CST
today i went to street and buy something with my friend,she invited me to have a supper with her,but i refuse her,i talked to her:i must go home and cook for my little sisiter,so she was angry,she said,didn't your little sister cook herself,did't you look after for the rest of my life,i don't why to answer her question,i know what she said is right,i could not be lived together with her,but she ill serious,i must look after carefully,maybe her illness could not heal,but i could not abandon her,she is my only sister,i don't hope that she would not hurted by somebody,including me i don't know how long i look after her,if it you,what did you do,looking after them or abandoning them?
3 responses
@cwong77 (2010)
• Malaysia
23 Aug 09
hi bingchen.. first of all, sorry to hear that your sister is badly suffering now with her illness, and we hope she recover soonest possible..
Of course, if a close family member to us is sick, and we will be also be burden on our shoulder, however given me, I won't leave or abandon them. Should I think I am unable to provide the all time assistance, I will try to find other ways, like asking for help from other relatives or friends in order to have some 'me' time too..
We are unable to keep forgoing our 'me' time just to care for someone who we love and sick, but we could at least source for other ways in order to have both world.. maybe next time you can invite your friend to eat in your house since you already need to cook for your sister...
I wish you all the best, and hopefully, you are able to stand strong..
@StarBright (2798)
• United States
22 Aug 09
You have a good heart. Of course you must stand by your sister and care for her. It is the right thing to do. What would you want if it were you? Yor friend is selfish and not a nice person. Maybe she is just young and has a lot to learn about life.
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
no. definitely a BIG NO. When our family members fall into sickness we should not leave them. it is really not the best of our interest too when you let someone close to you - blood relation to just die alone and not taken cared of.
i would say that when a brother or a family member have such illness, i would really try to care for them as much as i could and i would expect them to also care for me the same way.
