What type of relationship do you think is appropriate for college?  | |  Do you think that going into college you should be single and not tied down - or try to make a long distance relationship work? I recently began college and have heard many different varying opinions on this matter from my fellow students, and I was simply curious as to what others think. Share what you did in college if you've already been there or what you think is the wisest or best course of action.
I personally believe that it depends on if you are already in a previous relationship and how strong that relationship is. If you love someone, then remaining faithful and overcoming distance should be completely do-able and your relationship should last.
However, I think that if you aren't in a serious relationship, or if you aren't sure about what you want, then you should enter college as either a single man or woman. Or possibly you could be in an open relationship with someone else if you talk it over and decide that while you both care for each other very much that you are okay with fun little flings with other people.
What do you think, and what did you do?
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| | | | | | 1.  lovedude (1631) | 5 months ago |  Well.. I was in the same situation when I started my college.. but it's not like that you go there and think you will keep relationship in limit or for long distance relationship.. It's just natural feelings you will feel for few (!!!) and may be get one or may be not.. but never think that you are in college so you should have one bf/gf.. you can have many boys and girls are friends.. if one suits you, your home, your family and culture.. you can go for long term relationship.. I got my better half from office even she was studying with me in college.:-) so it's just matter of time. Good Luck and also study well..:-)
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| | 2.  MachaMongRuad (149) | 5 months ago |  It really all depends on the people involved. In general, I think that gaining some experience before you settle on one person is a good idea. However, not all people feel they need that to understand themselves and be happy. Personally, I think I'm happier now for all the various relationship and sexual experiences I had, whether they were good or bad, because they taught me about who I am in and out of a relationship and who I want to be in and out of a relationship. My boyfriend, on the other hand, has had one other long term serious relationship and that was over the internet mostly with a girl who lives thousands of miles away from us. He doesn't have much experience and he hasn't really examined himself and his life as thoroughly as I have, but he's happy and he knows himself well enough to make choices and deal with the consequences.
Basically, decide for yourself. College is a time to learn who you are when you're not necessarily surrounded by people who've known you your entire life, if it feels better for you to try to keep up a long distance relationship with your high school sweetheart, then do that. If it feels better to date and gain experiences with lots of people, then do that. Different people are going to feel differently and choose different paths.
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