How do you know that you are ready to start a new relationship?

Well I have to admit that is how I met my current husband. He was best friends with my ex-husband. So when I asked for a divorce from ex I jumped at the chance to snag my current husband. I know it sounds like a soap opera. While, my ex and current husband were friends I got to know the type of man my current was and still is. He is true to his woman(which would be me) and my ex was a cheater. He does not hit women and my ex did. All the qualities I hated in my ex, the man I am married to know does not have. That was a plus. He doesn't tell me he loves me just to be saying it as a response, he tells me he loves me because that is what he feels. One thing I will tell mylotters is that I feel out of love with my ex years before even asking for a divorce (like about 5)because of the way he treated not only me, but people he called his friends. He was a scammer and a backbiter. Qualities that would not entice any woman after years of enduring this. I am glad I did meet someone else. I am an older woman and I wasted alot of good years on a man that was not worth it. Ladies listen up do not make the same mistakes I did and if you have a good man cherish him because they are hard to find.

Dear riani, I really do not have hands-on experience on this. But from watching Korean Love Series which is base on studied experiences and true stories, it is good to have an open mind after a break-off. Let say a 'cooling period' of a month or so. Do hang out with girl friends and get to know new guys. Do not just start another relationship just to fill up the 'gap' or the 'vacuum' due to the previous relationship. All the best and see a bigger picture in a relationship :)