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What is love? Do you hesitate when it's time to get married? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 99/100. karenkarenkk (405)   ranked 194 out of 19,161 in questions & answers3 months ago

Last night, I met a classmate in net, he told me his parent urge him to get married. He has a girl friend, but just hesitate to approach marriage, he said he do not know if he love her or not, and ask me if I know what is love. What do you think my friend? Do you also hesitate to get marry when you have date with someone for a long time?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 96/100. patriciaqualls (4606)   ranked 2,694 out of 19,161 in questions & answers   3 months ago

Well it depends on how long he has been with her if it has
been more than a year or two he should know if he
really loves her or not by now.
But yes marriage is forever or it should be forever.
I guess the thought of that does scare a lot of people.
Good luck to your friend.


myLot reputation of 99/100. karenkarenkk (405)   ranked 194 out of 19,161 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Thanks for your response, Patriciaqualls. Back to my time my husband asked me to marry him, I say yes without much thinking. To me, I think love is simple, love is I feel comfortable when being with him; when I am lonely, he can accompany me; when I am sad, there is a warm hug; when I am tired, there is shoulder for me...


myLot reputation of 96/100. patriciaqualls (4606)   ranked 2,694 out of 19,161 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Yes you are right getting married should be a second nature.
You should want to be married to the person that you love.

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2. myLot reputation of 85/100. ajipaizirido (284)   ranked 1,936 out of 19,161 in questions & answers   3 months ago

If me as your friend, I'll leave my girlfriend without making broken her heart and explain to my parents about my situation, it was all just for my future. The biggest mistake of my life is got married with some one who does I'm not love her. I hope your friend did'nt experience anything like me and hopefully will be fine.


myLot reputation of 99/100. karenkarenkk (405)   ranked 194 out of 19,161 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Hi Ajipaizirido, you might be right. Marriage should be forever, we should find one that best fit us. Anyway, it seems not too easy, I have several friends, they are near 30 but still do not find their partners...

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. sasalove (425)   ranked 129 out of 19,161 in questions & answers   3 months ago

Hi KarenKK,

If I were him, I won't marry for marriage. In China, Marriage is holy and traditional issue that we need to pond over it. We should be responsible for our partner in the future.If I did not love him, I will not marry him. To be frank, a lot of people is married for their family. Hope your friends did not.


myLot reputation of 99/100. karenkarenkk (405)   ranked 194 out of 19,161 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Hi Sasalove, I am glad that you keep the traditional idea. In nowadays, it's disappear gradually. Good luck to you, my friend.

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