I need some info, anyone know anything about restraining orders?

Canada
September 9, 2009 9:33am CST
Haha, the title looks horrible. Anyways, I dont feel like researching because Ill just get everything technical and maybe if someone had experience id get the simple version. My ex boyfriend got a new girlfriend 10 months ago, like a week after we broke up. Such a rebound. Anyways.. I was unfortunat to have my ex pick a psycho, who hates me cause I was there first. After her showing up at my work, calling me, msging me, coming to public places knowing id be there, pushing me and both her and her fat sister jumpinging me. I finally saw her at a club this weekend, actually i should say didnt see her becuase when I was walking by her I wasnt looking at her. She pushed me and punched me in the face without even knowing what was going on or waht she was doing. Shes tried before, but this is the first time shes connected the punch to my face haha. So whats involved with a restraining order? I never had to get one and I dont wanna be the type to have to. But this girl is CRAZY. lol public scenes, it wouldnt matter if we were at the mall or a bar shes a creep like that. So if I got one and she was somewhere first, Id have to leave right? Just a little info would help me out unbelivably haha, what luck I have eh. If I woulda know a year and a half ago when i started dating the guy this would haoppen I wouldnt have bothered. I dont know where girls get the nerve? But yet the city I live in has trashy girls like that everywhere so not suprising.. info please:)?
1 response
• United States
9 Sep 09
Well that sucks, what you need to do is go to the police station and explain your situation. You can get a restraining order against her for a certain amount of feel e.g. 100 or 200, that way she cannot get close enough to you to do any physical harm. Make sure that you have a number to call the police if she violates it and cross the court ordered line. She will get tossed in jail if she violates the order. You should not live your life in a cave just because she's a wacko, don't go looking for trouble and I know you are not that kind of person so just get a restraining order against her and just know that a piece of paper will not stop her from doing what she thinks is justifable but a few nights in the clink might change her tune.
• Canada
9 Sep 09
luckily for myself, they are hermits and only chill with eachother so I dont see them often so tis not usually an issue, but the odd time i see them they're nuts. This isnt the first time shes done it to me or any other person..just no one does anything. Im just curious. Like i want her to back right off but I dont wanna not go places cause shes there.