What will you think if a friend ask you to make love with her/him?  

different people have different thoughts...some say that friendship can turn into love..some say that friendship should never turn to love...i have witnessed many friendships turning into deep love and ending up in marriage...according to me, a deep friendship cannot continue..because once if u marry, u have to spend ur life with ur life partner, u cannot spend much time with ur friend...so according to me, if anybody or any of my friend is telling me that they are in love with me, i will analyse for a while, if i am really interested, i will love them, for sure, if not for blank, i will deny..
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happy mylotting...

this sounds like friends with benifits. not an area i'd like to go when there's more emotions envoled, it would change your whole friendship.

this is very phenomenonal among friends.i don't think it is a smart way to start a new stage in ur relationship.it usually results in ending a good friendship.love needs patience.as u a young guy,i recommend u take the luck as it comes.may u have a sweet love story.happy mylotting!

hi,

if this will happen to me (hope it will never happen)
i will surely stare to him with those shocking facial expression,
and i will slap him totally, with all my strength and
i will shout at him, maybe i will curse him..
and after that, it will change everything, our friendship..
i can't dare to have a friend like that..

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Alcohol always helped this along with my friends....LoL

I have had "casual" relationships with a few of my guys friends (USUALLY not at the same time....but that is another topic..)...and i will admit..the next day after it happened, there was that little bit of"oh my gosh....what happened? what will happen when we hang out again? can we still be friends? or will it be weird? Luckily for me, it never was, and these guys are STILL very close friends of mine, even though one is now married with kids, and the other is still "playin the field".

It can work out, as long as both people know what they are going into it thinking. Is it just a fun, friendly thing? Or does one of you have feelings for the other? If lovey, romantic feelings are involved, it can get pretty messy, pretty fast, and possibly ruin a friendship. But if both people (truthfully!) can say that it is just for fun with no strings attatched, then good for them.

i actually was in this situation. My friend ask me and because of being married we both decided not to do this but then years later we just couldnt stop it any more and it happened. Was the most amazing time of my life!