wat is real luv??

For me real love means you are giving here time to think, a space to spare and freedom if she or he dont like to be with you... Most people think of love as a selfish one because they want to get what they want...

In the Christian Community if you love someone you need to check it first if it is real love you can know this by situations or words from God and you need to be prepared by the situations... like for example if your crush is your church mate and you said to her all whats in your heart and then she is now having space with you then you must be prepared by this situation, The reason of not attending church service anymore means your not prepared and you don't value God.....

first, there is attraction, then enfatuation - the "falling in love stage" commonly mistaken as real love. at this stage, all is beautiful and oh so perfect. As time pass and the relationship goes on, this intense feeling of attraction eventually fades and reality sets in. flaws get recognized, annoyance sets in, reality bites. and when this stage sets in, should you feel, recognize and truly know to yourself that you still appreciate that opposite person, then its love.