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myLot reputation of 81/100. ranviruchauhan (606)4 months ago

Hi all,
For a long time I have not been successful to get a good job with handsome salary. I have good qualification, good knowledge however reach at last stage and get rejected without any reason. My luck is not with me for a long time. Person who has less knowledge and less qualification then me getting good salary?
Now come to the point, I feel jealousy when someone who is less qualified then with me getting good job. What can I do for that, is just a layman. I know it is wrong but I am waiting for good luck.Have a nice day!! Happy mylotting!!

 
 
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Nisha_Verghese (450) response was accepted on 11/6/2009.
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tags:  jelous, good luck, jealous, frustration, growth
 
1. myLot reputation of 96/100. andresimp (336)   ranked 485 out of 503 in myself   4 months ago

i completely understand your frustration but feeling jealous is not going to help you anyway. we are human and we get frustrated when our talents and hard work is not recognized, but if i spend time feeling jealous about other, i would still be in the same position. may be God has higher plans for you in life. so instead of spending time thinking about those who are under us. try to look others who are higher than you in all aspects and see how they have come up in life.. think of ways to grow up in your life. good luck


myLot reputation of 81/100. ranviruchauhan (606)  4 months ago

Hi Andresimp!
You are right, jealous is not going to help you.I always try to think positive that "god has thought some more good for me" Thank you very much for your kind response. Have a nice day!!

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2. myLot reputation of 74/100. Nisha_Verghese (450)   ranked 486 out of 503 in myself   4 months ago

Hi Ranviruchauhan,
You know your own capabilities right? You do not need to judge yourself based on whether you got a job or not. Some people just do not have the luck. Don't lose your heart over this issue and think about what you can do to solve your problem. If you are not getting a job in your career option, you can always change your stream and try getting job elsewhere. And try to figure out exactly why people with lesser knowledge and qualification would be getting a better salary than you.. ther must be some genuine reason like interview skills. If you figure out the problem, then you can do something about it and improve yourself in that.

Jealousy is just a green-eyed monster!! Banish it!!

Cheers!!


myLot reputation of 81/100. ranviruchauhan (606)  4 months ago

Hi nisha!
I am trying to figure out all my problems. Mylot has really helped me to sort out one problme in communication. Your suggestion is really helpful to me. I just want to improve my oral communication as well as confidence to get a good job.
I will try to banish that green eyed banish. Have a nice day!!

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3. myLot reputation of 99/100. prikayjo2436 (221)   4 months ago

I can totally understand on how you are feeling! If the employer does not hire you, than they just don't deserve you, the right job will come along. You will see, just hang in there!

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