Do you have friends who only remeber you when they need money?
By eve301345
@eve301345 (658)
Philippines
September 16, 2009 5:38pm CST
Hello Everyone,
I just like to know wither its only me who have many friends that only remember me when they need something from me specially financial.
I have many friends but last week when we return from Philippines I get this message straight away from my friend who I haven't heard for ages and you know before we lost communication I use to contact her and try to get time together for a chat but it seem like she was avoiding me of some sort. But this time to my surprise I got this message from her saying she really needed money and I thought what the hell? She didn't even bother saying "how are you" just straight to the money!
I didn't help her ab course and it really make me feel bad but the thing is if I help her afterward I will feel bad still because of the fact that she only contacted me for money.
How about you, do you have friends like this? If so do you help theme when they ask your help specially financially?
Thanks all for your response and happy Myloting
4 responses
@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
17 Sep 09
Hi eve!
It seems that your friend badly needed the money that she forgot to have a little chitchat first before talking about money. Did you ask her why she needed it before saying no?
Friends have annoying attitudes sometimes but I'm lucky that none of my friends are like that. They do borrow money but at least, they don't go straight to that topic hehe
. I would also be irritated like you if it happens to me but I will probably help my friend if I would know how badly she needed the money.
Ciao!
It seems that your friend badly needed the money that she forgot to have a little chitchat first before talking about money. Did you ask her why she needed it before saying no?
Friends have annoying attitudes sometimes but I'm lucky that none of my friends are like that. They do borrow money but at least, they don't go straight to that topic hehe. I would also be irritated like you if it happens to me but I will probably help my friend if I would know how badly she needed the money.
Ciao!
@cybersoft01 (1284)
• India
17 Sep 09
I am not surprised to hear about this friend of yours because I know this world has all sorts of people. I have heard many stories like this from my friends and I had a friend who remembered me only when he needed help but it was long time before and now I don't have such friends. I have learned to be away from selfish friends.
@madugulagopi (1093)
• India
17 Sep 09
Ha I have some of my friends who turns to me when they are in trouble no need to be financial but any sort of trouble and I try to help them in whatever way I can but I don't bother to expect the same from them because when they turn to you only when they are in trouble,its obvious that they won't help me when I am in trouble.I only help them because they heva come to me and asked help..
Anyway life is full of mixed people and they are one kind among many kinds
@satan88 (584)
• United States Minor Outlying Islands
16 Sep 09
No i'm known as the poorest of my friends so usually it's me who needs to ask when i need money lol. But if a friend only remembers you when they need money then they are not really your friends and you should just leave them. For me i'm a good friend and i only borrow money when i really need it and i know i can pay them back.
