is it ok for a girl to court guyz????

That's a tough one. So it's fair to say that all men and women have equal rights. Therefore, they both have the right to court whoever they want to court. But based on how we were trained to understand our roles, it would feel uncomfortable to me to have to court a guy, and a lot of guys I know would also feel awkward about this turn in events. So I say there's no problem in doing it, but it just might not be appreciated the way it's expected to be from the other party.

Courting now a days take place the old scenario. Girls now courting the guys whom they like. Not just like before.

I wouldn't turn an opportunity down, that's for sure. It is flattering when a woman makes the first move, even though it doesn't happen often. I was asked out once, and I turned her down. The reason being, she was drunk and her boyfriend kicked her to the curb. Needless to say, I was hoping she would of asked me with a sober mind.

I would have to say yes it is okay but what girls need to learn that men have had year to prefect is if a guys not that into you he's not going to be that into you. If a guy wants a girl he wil go out of his way to be with her. Girls don't get when guys don't call you its not because he lost your phone number because if he liekd you he would definetly NOT lose your number. Girls make a lot more excuses for guys as where guys typically will pick up hints girls arent interested and stop going for it.

For me it's okay. I don't see any problem with that. If you really like the person then why not do everything to have them. As what you have said it's a new generation now. Girls can always do what men can.

I do not find it awkward for girls to court boys because as you said the whole is changing and we stay in touch with every thing we should be able to walk with time sometimes so I really do no find it strange for girls courting a boy.

Dude if a chick wants to put the moves on me first, than i am totally okay with it. I mean who cares, as long as ya'll get together right? I mean that how i got my last girl friend, she put the heat on me and pretty much made me ask her out, which was kook with me cause im wanna those guys that isnt gonna go out on a limb and take a chance of it breaking if you know what i mean. anyway ya i think in todays way of life it really doesnt matter anymore, like it used too.

Sometimes, confidence is one thing but more importantly, it shows women to follow the modern train of thought 'all sexes are equal' and they do not follow the old adage that men should always make the first move. Although, I quite like that old tradition.
When i liked someone, the least i could do is to stay still. I dont have the guts. Im not the type who wears the pants. LOL