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myLot reputation of 97/100. thoseappleslooknice (246)   ranked 1,681 out of 13,139 in internet 3 years ago

Do you think children are safe enough on the internet? If you have children, do you trust them to surf the internet on their own or do you watch to make sure? Do you think safety precautions (such as the majority of websites being blocked in some schools, including google images and international newspapers) are a step too far?

Any other points you would like to make are welcome!

I am taking the subject EPQ in my A levels which means I need to choose a subject and write about it, and so I chose Child Safety on the internet. I think it's an interesting topic as many children seem to complain about the precautions made yet there are a lot of bad places on the internet, and people, so its a two way discussion. For example, blocked websites could save a child from getting into some bad trouble, but they can also disrupt learning! I would really like to hear your ideas and opinions!

Thanks a lot! :)

 

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1. myLot reputation of 100/100. astonysh (4492)   3 years ago

sadI do not have children or grandchildren, but I am nonetheless a concerned citizen.

Making this workable would be difficult, given the medium, but my own view is that the Internet should have the same parental guidance status as movies.

There are movies that a 15-year-old is not allowed to see without an adult present, yet far more dangerous things can happen on the 'net than can happen when in chat rooms with total strangers, or when receiving aggressive, insulting communications on a social network site like Facebook.thumbdown

I have my doubts anyway whether it is a particularly good way of making friends. Kids would be far better advised to join clubs where they can practise their interests (in an ordered supervised fashion), and make friends that way. Far better than trusting a total electronic stranger, whom they do not really know.happy


myLot reputation of 97/100. thoseappleslooknice (246)   ranked 1,681 out of 13,139 in internet  3 years ago

Thanks for responding.

You have an interesting point so thank you for bringing it up as I hadn't thought of it. Do you think it should be harder to enter sites that are listed as 15 and over, for example? Perhaps children could apply for a personal password in the same way they would apply for a bus pass etc. which proves that they are above the age and allows them through to certain websites?

Your points on Facebook are also interesting. I'm personally 16 and have used my Facebook account for a couple of years now, making sure that I know the people I add and that they are real accounts. But I know that there are people who do differently and just add whoever requests to be added, believing they are making new friends and this worries me too. I haven't actually questioned these people about it as they're people I know simply because we went to school together and I don't actually talk to them much at all. I can say though that a lot of people my age find it better to talk to people online as they are shy, and so if offered the chance to join a club they would turn it down.

Thanks again for getting involved with this discussion. :)


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2. myLot reputation of 92/100. kryptoscode (371)   ranked 4,632 out of 13,139 in internet   3 years ago

Blocking sites or I should say Bad sites doesn't disrupt learning. I been an System Administrator for more than year and this what we implemented at our office same goes at our home. There numerous ways we can block bad sites without hampering learning to our children there are new technologies right now that intelligently prevent bad sites from opening on a child's computer.So I must say in own opinion this problem can be prevented in way. We don't stop children from accessing the net as long as there is proper ways of delivering it to them.Internet right now has a lot information that a child could learn of course with our proper guidance as parents like us.Parents has always a big role in upbringing it's children in the right direction.


myLot reputation of 97/100. thoseappleslooknice (246)   ranked 1,681 out of 13,139 in internet  3 years ago

I agree that blocking pornography, for example, isn't a bad thing and should be done, but do you think it is necessary to block websites such as Google Images and newspaper websites? These websites are blocked on my city's school computers which causes huge problems in IT lessons and any lesson that needs research (such as essays which ask for a lot of research and a bibliography). Do you think that this is going too far, simply because they feat that some news articles and images will be inappropriate for younger eyes?

You have also brought up an interesting point in saying that parents are the main people who should teach their kids what the right things to do are. Do you believe, however, that children should start to have special IT lessons or sessions in school where they are informed about safety on the internet? Unfortunately, a lot of parents still do not know how to use the internet which I personally believe is the big problem. As the internet is such a new thing, it's easy for a younger child to learn about places and things to do on the internet they shouldn't before their parents even know about them.


myLot reputation of 92/100. kryptoscode (371)   ranked 4,632 out of 13,139 in internet  3 years ago

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3. myLot reputation of 42/100. vdhaval (100)   3 years ago

the internet is as dangerous of a place as a real street.
parents need to instruct their children as to which sites are safe and which are not
the idea of children going to online chat rooms and chatting with unknown strangers who also mite be pedophiles is scary
also i see no point in which young children should sign up on social networking sites and putting up photos of their life

blocking of websites is way which may not be effective as everyone can find ways of bypassing security
what makes more sense is guidin young children to be vigilant before accessing any website or givin out personal info


myLot reputation of 97/100. thoseappleslooknice (246)   ranked 1,681 out of 13,139 in internet  3 years ago

You have brought up another interesting fact. It is true that website blocking is not completely effective! I have just asked someone a similar question that I will ask you.

You have said that parents are the people who need to instruct their children what is right and wrong, but the internet is so new that many adults do not know how to use it and because the children are getting lessons, they are learning about all of the places on the internet they shouldn't before their parents are able to stop them from being able to reach them. Do you believe, therefore, that children should get lessons in safety on the internet? Or in these cases do you think perhaps parents should attend sessions to learn about how to keep their children safe on the internet?


Thanks for responding!

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4. myLot reputation of 93/100. pillusch (843)   ranked 615 out of 13,139 in internet   3 years ago

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myLot reputation of 97/100. thoseappleslooknice (246)   ranked 1,681 out of 13,139 in internet  3 years ago

Your point about the amount of time spent on the internet is interesting. I spend absolutely hours on the internet, but personally I find that by typing in proper English it helps me with my spelling and paragraphing while I enjoy the internet. I find the internet can be quite relaxing and a good source for information on anything I want to know, which can of course be a problem with children's safety if they are looking up something they shouldn't, but it is good for school work and general knowledge. I do know that it is terrible for my eyes staring at the monitor for a long time but the internet is very addictive. I would say that people are relying on it more and more and definitely a bit too much, however. A girl I know was recently posting on her phone through facebook that she had spent a power cut for over an hour sat by her laptop waiting for it to come back on again.

Thanks for responding! :)

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5. myLot reputation of 41/100. kutedarsu (175)   3 years ago

Chat rooms have been a favorite pastime for kids on the inter net.. they can have friends and they have fun as well.. the problem with chat is that they are generally anonymous, so that person they chatting may not be who they say who they are....


myLot reputation of 97/100. thoseappleslooknice (246)   ranked 1,681 out of 13,139 in internet  3 years ago

I know that this has been a major problem for fan bases. Sometimes, people pretend to be a celebrity and say they will meet young fans when they are of course paedophiles. It is really sad that people believe these terrible people and I am glad that celebrities often get involved in campaigns etc. against this happening, making sure their fans know they do not use networking places such as MSN.

Thanks for the response!

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. ravinskye (7733)   ranked 872 out of 13,139 in internet   3 years ago

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myLot reputation of 97/100. thoseappleslooknice (246)   ranked 1,681 out of 13,139 in internet  3 years ago

I haven't watched that program but thank you for mentioning it as I will look it up - it could be a great source of research for my essay.

It is terrible that these things happen again and again. Do you believe that the prison sentences people get for these happenings are not good enough?

Thanks for responding! :)

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7. myLot reputation of 75/100. EliteUser (3913)   3 years ago

Hey,

Well I think that children any younger than 12 shouldn't be exposed to the Internet at that age. This is because their mind is really immature and they have no idea what they are actually doing. And their are many 'adult' sites out their, that just pop up. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!happy

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