Can You Make Someone Change through your Love and Affections?

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Love and affections is a self-therapy towards a person to change for better. In our real world there are different causes for every effect happened that we consider it very relevant in our life. Sometimes we care too much to a person that we always tell its ok if its not because you don't try to make him/her change for better. Other say it's a matter of acceptance but do you really care and love the person if you won't try to make him/her change for good? I had a relationship before and we have different perspectives and views in life which I must respect. But on the other hand, I kept telling him that his vices is too much already which is not good for his health. He is very hard-headed because he can't minimize smoking and drinking so I told him I have to leave him for good if he don't listen which push him a moment to think.So, on that day, he rarely smoke and drinks....and I'm very happy because I knew it that he loves me and I understand.