How to keep the relationship strong?

We try to keep in touch with each other through calls and texts. Most of the time, we end up fighting.:( How could we prevent ourselves from fighting?..:(

And what is this fights all about?It is important to know the reasons of your fight and start to fix or adjust yourself about it.
Sad to say I have had a long distance relationship before and it does not work out well.

Our fights are just about little things. These little things usually turn into bigger fights:( I sometimes feel that this relationship is not working. May I ask how you went with your long distance relationship, if it is just fine with you.

We used to have small fights too until it became a bit bigger each day.Until we became busy with our own work.And changes begin to happen.And I started to love it this way until I decided to break up and enjoy my life on my own.You know what I have realized, I realize that I never really loved him at all.And I know it is all worth it.
Well your case is of course different.I think you and your partner need to work things out always as soon as possible.And always trust each other.

that's what we lack.. TRUST. i don't know why i could not trust him. i just feel like he cannot be trusted. that is why i get jealous most of the time.:(

I do not think relationships with no TRUST work.Trust is really an important thing when it comes to relationship.If you have no trust for him, you feel insecure most of the time.It feels like you have no peace in the relationship.You need to trust each other especially during these times that you are in the long distance situation.
May i know what made you not to trust him?

he has lied to me many times before. first, he lied about his identity. but he, himself told me that he lied. he said because he loves me, he wanted to tell me the truth. i love him, so i forgave him. the next was, I received a text from his friend (who used his number) that my bf was admitted to the hospital. i texted his other friends and they said that my boyfriend was doing fine and he was not hospitalized. i confronted him about this and he said that he loves me so much that was why he lied and said those things (we were quarreling at that time). it was not his friend who texted me (that he was admitted) but it was actually him. i did not know it was him because he changed his style of txting..:(

yes, we remember special dates. during our monthsaries, we call each other and text the whole night. but unfortunately, we sometimes quarrel during special occasions.

i am hit by what you said "understand him if he can't make to call you everyday":D i always get angry if he failed to do so. now, i will try to be calm and understand his situation of why he cannot call me..

gulping anger is quite hard. when i'm angry, i express it out loud to my boyfriend. i cannot control myself from saying nasty things. he gets hurt and i feel sorry afterwards..:( but now, i will do my best to control my anger..

always talk about your problems and be open
the more open you are the more you two will be able to confide in each other and be honest..you two will connect and become closer.
always keep an aire of mistery too..this keeps you two wanting each other and not getting tired of each other
if you two spen every single day together..u 2 will get tired of each other and wont last very long.
so if he texts you one day wait 10 minutes before texting back to keep him wondering what you were doing.
also try to not see each other for days..it helps and its good to miss him because then when u two are together it makes it that much better.

i love your idea. i will try that. hope it works for the both of us..