Is it possible to keep mind cool, when someone insults?
By ample03
@ample03 (403)
India
September 27, 2009 11:28am CST
Do we feel superior over other persons when we insult them? And if someone dares to insult us ,can we keep ourselves cool or we outburst with anger? How to have real control over mind or is that really impossible?
3 responses
@1anurag1 (3576)
• India
27 Sep 09
I think that is the matter of situation or circumstances only. If a person is saying anything , in which context it is taken. Even in a class if teacher scold a student it is taken by some student as insult, but in real every time it is not.
So who and why is the questionable words.And if really a person does this delebaretly then i think then there is a line. reply with stone if some one do this with you.
@ample03 (403)
• India
27 Sep 09
Often the outbreaks are hate angry and heartburn..,as it is really really difficult to restrain. But you are right...,some people get pleasure out of watching who they have insulted cry, squirm or feel uncomfortable. Their main purpose is to get reaction from the other person. They always look for a positive and combative comeback, if it is not given there are maximum chances they stop.
@Frederick42 (2043)
• Canada
30 Sep 09
It is not difficult to keep mind cool when somebody insults. If you are compassionate, then you naturally remain cool even when someone insults you.
Actually, mind is responsible for getting angry. We have to gain mastery over the mind. Once the mastery is gained, then it is very easy to remian cool, whatever the situation.
The mind makes us get angry. Someone insulting us is not the real problem.
