transforming our lover / partner to be "love of our life"

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well .. this is a challenge for some who are still looking for their "love" - but for the ones who already have a partner/lover - i believe that we can transform ourselves to be in the best of "partnership" just by changing some of our own attitute towards life to having a successful relationship - i have done that and it seems to be successful ... By this i dont mean for you who have "abusive" partners to stick on with this person ... but for the ones who have a "normal" partner, maybe we should work it out to ensure a successful relationship .. We have to always remember that all we want from our partner .. is someone to share our lifes This could be enhanced by - holding hands, once in a while - cooking dinner together - going for vacation - listening/ sharing opinion on some music together - etc Remindeer : Dont expect your partner/lover to be all that you want as they have their own individuality, but share some moments to feel happy Recently, me and my partner have ventured to "farming" in "farmville" at facebook - believe me, we have been sharing, laughing, and planning what to plant and rush home to harvest ... Well felt like just sharing my thoughts ... never give up on relationship too easily without trying to have fun first, fun sometimes comes cheap and easy This is only my opinion ... you can share yours, it may differ with experience and situations .. cheers