Are you a good speaker..?

Hi anurag3786, I think you are right about everyone having a different capability towards speaking. There is a difference for me in if I am speaking in front of a large group or just a friend. I speak clearly and get my ideas across to friends but if I am in front of a group (more than 5 people is a group for me, even if they are all friends) I get very nervous and my anxiety level goes up quite a bit. I feel as though my voice shakes and I feel like I am not making any sense. Then people will come up to me later and tell me that I am a wonderful speaker but I never feel that way in front of a group. I like listening to individuals who speak in front of groups as if they are talking just to you, they seem to have a lot of charisma and confidence. I like listening if the speaker is well-spoken and doesn't break sentences up by using "um" or "uh" or noises like that, to me that is very distracting and I feel like I want to finish their sentences for them!

Yes i am but not every time. If i am aware of the topic and i know the person in front of me is also a good listener. I have learnt one thing if you just speak in front of a person who is not interested in listening you. then you are just wasting your energy and the moral