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myLot reputation of 98/100. karenkarenkk (377)   ranked 199 out of 18,986 in questions & answers2 months ago

My husband's hometown is pretty far away from mine. It takes about 3 hours' fly or more than 50 hours by train. We are living in a city close to my hometown. So we only go back his home once in a year. His parent miss him very much and hope we can move to thier hometown. When it comes to my parent, they absolutely hope we do not move...

Dear mylotters, do you have similar problem like me? If there is chance, do you feel hesitate to marry a foreigner? Or do you stop a relationship if your hometown are too far away?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. kaka135 (2753)   ranked 197 out of 18,986 in questions & answers   2 months ago

Well, I suppose when you love someone, all the barriers can be broken with love. I don't think I'll stop a relationship if distance is the issue. But when it comes to the families, I am really glad that my husband and I are from the same hometown. Every time when we travel back to our hometown, we stay at his house, but also always go back to my house and visit my parents. That means, we get to spend time with our parents more often.
It's really a hard decision to make, parents always hope that the kids are staying near to them. Hope you'll find a solution for this soon. happy


myLot reputation of 98/100. karenkarenkk (377)   ranked 199 out of 18,986 in questions & answers  1 month ago

Hello, Kaka, Yeah, I agree with you that barriers can be broken with love. That is why we married. Anyway this is a hard situation for us, we may still stay here, as we both have job here, and go back later when we are getting old.

You are so lucky that your lover is from the same hometown as you. happy

Thank you for your response and have a nice day.

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. maximax8 (10307)   ranked 271 out of 18,986 in questions & answers   2 months ago

When you love someone a long distance relationship is possible. Love can cross countries or even continents. I am British and my ex-husband is Australian. I met him on a train in Australia and he came to live in England. He found the weather way too cold because he was used to a sub tropical climate.


myLot reputation of 98/100. karenkarenkk (377)   ranked 199 out of 18,986 in questions & answers  1 month ago

Hello, Maximax, so distance really matter to a relationship. Especially when families are involved...

Thanks for your response and have a nice day.

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. rainmark (3688)   ranked 47 out of 18,986 in questions & answers   2 months ago

Hi there karen.
I already married a foriegner man,I came from Philippines and his from England.Before we get married, he only visited me once or twice a year if he get chance to have an off from work. But we stay faithfull to each other. When we got married, i left my homeland and joined him here in England, my parents and family missed us soo much, but i do call them twice a month and do chatting online.

I'm sure your and his parents will going to understand, you have your own life now with your hubby. Just give your parents a call everyday. And visit them once you get a chance.

Happy posting.


myLot reputation of 98/100. karenkarenkk (377)   ranked 199 out of 18,986 in questions & answers  1 month ago

Hello, Rainmark, nice to know you are successful in your cross-country marriage. Congratulations! lol

Thanks for your suggestion and I will try to do it in a better way that can less my parent's unhappiness.

Have a nice day and happy mylotting.

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4. Anica82 (2)   2 months ago

Well, i would marry foreigner, if it is a true love... actually, i will marry one, he lives 2000 km from me, in other country, other culture, other language, but i don't care. I know my parents will miss me a lot, and it will be very hard, but i still want to leave my country and everything because of him. I just can not imagine my life without him. I think i will try to bring parents later if they agree, at least for few months.


myLot reputation of 98/100. karenkarenkk (377)   ranked 199 out of 18,986 in questions & answers  1 month ago

Hello, Anica, congratualations that you find your true love, a person that you can give up everything for him. My best wishes to you and to your family and your coming marriage.

Thank your for your response and have a nice day.

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5. myLot reputation of 86/100. doglady112 (308)   ranked 2,862 out of 18,986 in questions & answers   2 months ago

I think that the next time I get married, I won't marry someone and move away. I'll stay in my hometown close to my family. I did that this time and it was a mistake, a bad mistake. I rarely get to see my family now and I don't like that. Also if I do marry again I'd take all of my furniture from my apartment when I moved in with my partner.


myLot reputation of 98/100. karenkarenkk (377)   ranked 199 out of 18,986 in questions & answers  1 month ago

Hi Doglady, I am sorry to hear that and hope things getting better with you.

Best wishes and good luck to you.

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6. myLot reputation of 96/100. malamar (435)   ranked 1,852 out of 18,986 in questions & answers   2 months ago

I would marry and move away providing he lived in a warm southern climate!

No, really, I guess if I were to marry, we would move wherever we had to be for employment and other opportunities. We can't always stay close to both sets of parents unless you marry someone from your own town or very nearby.

It is easier to stay in touch now than it used to be, so that would help. I would not hesitate to marry someone I loved just on the grounds of having to relocate.


myLot reputation of 98/100. karenkarenkk (377)   ranked 199 out of 18,986 in questions & answers  1 month ago

Hello, Malamar, I like the warm weather as well. My hometown is in the south, and his is in the north-west, it is pretty cold there and it is located in a highland. That is one of the reason that I feel hesitate to move there. sad

Thanks for your response and have a nice day.


myLot reputation of 96/100. malamar (435)   ranked 1,852 out of 18,986 in questions & answers  1 month ago

Oh, that is a difficult decision Karen. I too love the warm climate and would be sad to leave for a northern location. What exactly is a "highland", I am not really clear on that.

I hope everything works out for you, and you are happy.


myLot reputation of 98/100. karenkarenkk (377)   ranked 199 out of 18,986 in questions & answers  1 month ago

Hello, Malamar, I am sorry that I may not make myself clear. I mean altiplano, tableland. Do you get that? When people from campagna come to tableland, we get sick, it is a little difficult getting used living there.

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7. spacer123 (9)   2 months ago

who wouldn't>> everyone wants to have those blue eyes, and the height, and the color of the skin, as well.. But seriously,you don't need to marry them just to have good-looking kids.. if you're pretty/handsome enough, steal his/her heart. Looks can really be deceiving.


myLot reputation of 98/100. karenkarenkk (377)   ranked 199 out of 18,986 in questions & answers  1 month ago

Hello, Spacer, as for me, I do not want to marry a foreigner, no matter where he come from. I wish I am close with my own family even I have married. I think to marry someone just because of his/her good looking or because of wanna a good looking kid is really silly.

Thanks for your response and have a nice day.

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8. myLot reputation of 91/100. veromar (143)   ranked 5,712 out of 18,986 in questions & answers   2 months ago

I did it. Fell in love with someone I met over the internet. Me from the U.S. She from Argentina. I now live in Argentina! lol. It hasn't been too difficult on my parents and siblings. Having grown up in a military lifestyle we were constantly moving. As a result, forming relationships or lasting friendships was virtually impossible. I think it also allowed my parents to easier accept me moving so far away. We were raised to be soooooooooo independent! I think what was more difficult was the reaction from my friends at the time. All saying to "be careful" that my Argentine lover was only interested in me to be able to move to the U.S. LOL! Funny how things work out but it hurt alot being called "unpatriotic" and things like that. Been here for 10 yrs now and I'd still do it again. Love is love....if it's true love you find a way to work it out and family & friends will find a way to deal with it. My mom comes here every 2 yrs and the years she doesn't come here, I go there and visit all my family. It's a pretty good arrangement for us! Love can conquer all! lol. Happy myLotting!


myLot reputation of 98/100. karenkarenkk (377)   ranked 199 out of 18,986 in questions & answers  1 month ago

Hello, Veromar, congratulations that you married your true love. It is another example that true love conquers all. thumbup

Thank you for your sharing and best wishes to you and your family.

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9. myLot reputation of 75/100. jemaries (172)   ranked 9,470 out of 18,986 in questions & answers   2 months ago

For me it doest mean i dont like foreigner, but if ever i have a choice i preferred to marry same Filipino like me.Because its very difficult to adjust to other cultures and traditions, religions.Everything you need to learned about them.


myLot reputation of 98/100. karenkarenkk (377)   ranked 199 out of 18,986 in questions & answers  1 month ago

Hello, Jemaries, that is true. I feel the same as you.

Thanks for your response and have a nice day.

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10. myLot reputation of 91/100. manong05 (2933)   ranked 538 out of 18,986 in questions & answers   2 months ago

Marrying a foreigner has its own set of concerns like the one you mentioned among others. Also, another thing about getting married is that you have your own life with your hubby separate from your parents. It would be nice if you always stay close with your parents but in some cases, a couple has to move away far from them and this is not always easy. As time passes, everybody learns to adjust to the situation.

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myLot reputation of 98/100. karenkarenkk (377)   ranked 199 out of 18,986 in questions & answers  1 month ago

Hello, Manong, yeah, it is true that I have my own life with my hubby, especially when my kid comes. It is not easy to leave them but I need try to adjust it...

Thanks for your advice and have a nice day.

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