Should I accept ?  

I'm not familiar with your city at all. But I have heard a few horror stories about people meeting on the internet. So if you do decide to meet up with these people, please be extremely careful. And don't go alone. I think it is a good idea to take someone with you that you already know, maybe a guy friend.

Perhaps, if you don't have any friends at all, maybe you could meet someone at a bookstore. Since this seems to be more of your scene, then it only makes since that perhaps you could meet some people to hang out with there.

Nowadays, bookstores have coffee shops in them. And some of them even have chess boards and other games that you can play while you are drinking your coffee, tea, etc. These would be the perfect atmosphere to meet new friends. My niece did this while she was in high school, and I even got to go along with her and my sister one time. It was a really interesting experience for me, since I don't usually go to coffee shops.

If you do decide to meet up with these people, please be extremely careful!Although someone that you will meet is maybe a good person,but,there a lot of snares in the net!

just try it.. with or without any hesitation..

Hello Nagikka...Im also facing the same problem..im new to this...You at least have few frnds, but I Don't..its a social networking site..but still im finding difficulty in searching frnds...i cant just send frnd requests blindly....!!!!Im sendding you a request finding you on the same side...Hope you may accept.
The things you have mentioned above, about yourself...most of the things matches to me. And about online frndship...i dont know.....lets see how it works with you...i never tried it before making online frnds, mostly i accept the people whome i know, not that i dont accept the unknow ones, i do accept them....i have few in orkut but i dont repond them much because they only send request but they never chat or share.....

Hey Nagikka,

I think that good friendship can start with any kind of communication but safety should be your first priority. It's really not safe to go around meeting groups of people in real life after only talking to them on the internet. Talking on the internet means that you can't pick up on signs of what kind of people they are. I would suggest against it but if you really must go I hope you will bring somebody with you. I've heard many stories of people getting kidnapped by predators online claiming to be other people. Good luck, and I hope you'll be safe.

Hmm,,.. You can't be really sure about the people over here, not everyone is true. There are true ones as there are fake ones. I've never been invited by anyone through this but surely have got friends over here, accurately speaking, one friend. That was the person who led me to mylot and I'm really thankful to that person from Philippines, who is frequently giving me necessary guidelines on proceeding on this site. Sorry to say, how can i be sure if you are true! But i don't think you are faking, may be that's not possible as you seem to share your feelings right! Don't disclose your personal details to such people very quickly OK. May be you can try hanging out to meet them somewhere as decided, but try to take someone [ preferably, a trusted boy ] with you. Make friends, that's really good!

Never i met any one from online or to speak frankly i never made friendships with strangers online.I would suggest you not to meet them outside website.However there is no harm in meeting them online until and unless you are comfortable.And why you feel you do not have friends.Anyways you have a liking towards books.For any kind of person books are the best option to bond with,and one can choose books according to their interest.Since you like reading books..continue the habit of reading more books.Meanwhile,books will become your best friends and all time friends.

Life is about gamble, with alost everything that you do. every decision of your life. Maybe you haven't notice it but i do, well after reading some books, and thinks of the rational of it. In summary, how do you know that the shoe tha you buy at the store would last, or would look good on you? or perhaps, would be the your best choice? How would you know that your decision to invest on somehing would give you return, and in our case how would you know that the friends that you meet would be a good friend? No one knows actually. So my advise is, why not, accept the invitation. there's no harm. But of course be aware of a few things, like meet somewhere open, in public i mean. And try to assess, or may be chat casually during your first gathering. Try not to diclose about yourself, not until you know that you are with a trustworthy friend.

I have never met a friend from online, but I suggest you to be careful. Bring a friend or family if necessary, no one knew the danger when you went out alone to meet people who we don't know well.