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tracyprity (15)   ranked 429 out of 640 in had my heart broken3 months ago

Its been a year and 10 months now when I broke up with my boyfriend for three years and 3 months due to "third party for the third time". But until now,I still love him and I can't get him out of mind even though he won't come back for me because he is now with a new girl.I tried alot of ways to forget about him but it didn't worked. I went to and stayed for several months in a new place, change d my number, mingle with other people, jam with friends, focused myself with my priorities and family, I burn everything he gave me and had a make-over.but I failed to forget about him.so, How can I move on?

 
 
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muscles4me (9004) response was accepted on 11/3/2009.
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1. myLot reputation of 98/100. muscles4me (9004)   ranked 119 out of 640 in had my heart broken   3 months ago

Make a lsit of your good qualities and read over it several times a day until you really love and respect yourself. ALSO make a list of the terrible things he did to hurt you and forgive him for them and then find some hobbies. Maybe you just are not ready for ayone new either.


tracyprity (15)   ranked 429 out of 640 in had my heart broken  3 months ago

Thank you for your wonderful advice.I would definitely consider this and I will start listing tonight..Thank you so much

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2. myLot reputation of 94/100. Misterwit (1100)   3 months ago

Hello tracy....
Are you real close to this guy....I mean you did everything this guy wanted you to do....? if this is the case you may find it difficult forget this guy...and he is a really a charmer as you said he dump you over and over again...and it's always girls

But I tell you there are lot of guys out there who could make you forget about the past....try to find another charmer who is more innocent....keep up the confidence.....until you succeed... thumbup


tracyprity (15)   ranked 429 out of 640 in had my heart broken  3 months ago

Thank you so much for the advice...actually, our break up last year was our very first last one break up we had.but I think you're right.I need to find a new one...thank you for the encouragement


myLot reputation of 94/100. Misterwit (1100)  3 months ago

OK that's more like it.....I am not a very emotional guy so cannot give emotional advice....I wonder why people cry in the name of love... blink


charles_li (24)  3 months ago

Girls almostly do this, but I think Tracy can stand up and ignore that guy.
One thing, what's the meaning of "third party for the third time"?
Thanks.

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. feodda (394)   3 months ago

You can move on by thinking that he is worthless and don't deserve your love. And there is a man will come and much more deserving for your love. In the first place, it is the third time he done that to you. How could you trust and love a man that cheated you.

This is what I have done in the past few months. After the broke up with my ex because of Third Party. I just think he is a loser. And moving on is the best way to do. Don't lock up yourself to a guy that can't be trust and making your life miserable.

Look yourself in the future with him and get married. Do you think your marriage will last. Or just end up in a mess.

I know it is hard to move on, I have been there. But I have survive because of my friends, family and a new environment, and a person you loved me and changed my life. Getting forward in life and seeing yourself in a right track.

Don't look back to the past rather appreciate it as a lesson for your future. They always say that failed in love is a learning experience to make another relationship a better one.

Before loving another one, try to be in a right track for yourself. Love yourself above all things. Because you can't love again when you are broken heart, it just end up in a mess. Move on!!! and you can Survive!

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4. yaotian228 (3)   ranked 388 out of 640 in had my heart broken   2 months ago

Let by-gones be by-gones.Any way, we are walking towards but not backwards.I have experienced so many sorrow things. I lost my marriage, I lost my family, now, my treasure is my son. So girl, your treasure is yourself. Before you fall in love with another boy, just love yourself.
Cheer up~

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5. myLot reputation of 81/100. joygracia (216)   2 months ago

Probably if you`ll just divert yourself from things that would keep you busy it will work at some point. You can move on with that someday. I had my struggles like yours with my first boyfriend. Still on the process or recovering. Though its really hard but still keep going right now. you can do it! Good luck!

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6. Rickyslove (5)   2 months ago

its easy, just find a new one, start a new relationship, it helps alot.

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7. budit17mem (9)   1 month ago

the only person who can really tell you how to move on is - you. you have all the grieving rights but you should give yourself a timeframe as to when you will grieve and then move on. just be thankful that you were given a chance to love and be loved. open your heart to a new relationship and apply the things that you have learned from the past. other people do not experience the feeling of being in love or being loved but you are lucky you had your chance and fair share of the word - LOVE. and most importantly, love yourself, this is the best way to show a person that you are capable of loving, it starts with you...Goodluck!

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