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myLot reputation of 98/100. careguarden (499)   ranked 641 out of 23,366 in relationships3 months ago

I don't like somebody reading my mobile text messages without my knowledge or permission. It's act of disrespect and it's a violation of privacy. I would definitely get upset with that person.

One time I caught one of my friend reading our office mate mobile text messages during break time. I was surprised why she did that and she never told me either,and she asked me not to tell to our office mate what she did. I was disappointed with my friend. I was thinking that perhaps she also did that to me.

So what would you do, if you caught your friend reading your mobile text messages? Would you mind?

 
 
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tags:  privacy, text, messages, friends, text messages
 
1. TreeMarie84 (56)   3 months ago

I honestly have nothing to hide, so I don't really care. But depending on the messages I would. Especially if it between me and a boyfriend, then yes I'd mind. But everyday convo via texts I don't care about.


myLot reputation of 98/100. careguarden (499)   ranked 641 out of 23,366 in relationships  3 months ago

It's not about having a secret thing,or hiding something. It's a matter of respect, and someone's invading your privacy. It's other people personal thing, like a journal, and someones sneaking on it. Well anyway we have different perceptions regarding this matter. And reading text messages without asking my permission is a big NO for me.

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2. myLot reputation of 79/100. shajerrl (270)   ranked 6,526 out of 23,366 in relationships   3 months ago

For me, if I don't get the permission from my friend even my wife, I will never check their mobile, as all our mobile maybe has some secret files that we don't others to know. so if my friends reading my mobile text message without my permission, I will tell them kindly please don't do it next time, if you want to play with my phone, please get my permission firstly...thanks


myLot reputation of 98/100. careguarden (499)   ranked 641 out of 23,366 in relationships  3 months ago

Yeah, I also don't read other peoples mobile text messages even to my boyfriend without their permission. Because I respect them, they're entitled of their own privacy. And that's what I also want them to do in my part. Anyway sometimes curiosity is the beginning of sin and misery.

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3. myLot reputation of 99/100. getbrowser (1425)   ranked 1,451 out of 23,366 in relationships   3 months ago

I can't agree with you anymore.

I will become angry if I find one of my friends read the messages of my mobile phone without my permission. Yes, I just treat their practices as actions lack of respect for others. In order to prevent such a thing happening next time, I have set up a secret code on my mobile, which is really useful to stop their actions.

I think you can make a secret code too then you can protect your privacy obviously.

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4. vivienhsing (27)   3 months ago

I think it's really an upset thing. I hope it will never happen to me.I am a serious person. If my friends do things like that, I think he or she might do something bad to me.Such friends are not reliable.


myLot reputation of 98/100. careguarden (499)   ranked 641 out of 23,366 in relationships  3 months ago

Yeah, those kind of person are not really reliable and it's hard to trust. If they can't be trusted in small things then how much to more in bigger and serious issues in our life. Those kind of person loves to read other peoples email or listen to others people private conversation.

And you know what at that moment I doubt my friends sincerity and honesty. Because she has no right for doing that thing.

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5. myLot reputation of 98/100. larish (1428)   ranked 609 out of 23,366 in relationships   3 months ago

I won't mind because I am not keeping any secrets but I will make sure that she won't have another chance of doing it. I will make her promise that she won't do it again to anyone and will blackmail her by telling what a bad she had if she do it again. If I also see cellphone lying around the area, I will call the attention of the owner to keep her/his cellphone safe because it might get lost. That way, I was also protecting my friend from being tempted to read the messages on that phone.

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6. myLot reputation of 89/100. sinnedsejatnom (236)   ranked 22,707 out of 23,366 in relationships   3 months ago

If that happens to me, I probably get upset. Reading others cellphones without permission is like stealing. That's aside from the secrecy of the messages.

In my experience, I actually caught my mother and brother doing this on my cellphone and I got angry. But I don't hide my text messages from my wife. She can always see it anytime she wants and it is with my permission. I actually put a security code wherein only me and my wife knows. That's how I'm getting away with those stealers.

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7. myLot reputation of 92/100. silverglint (1479)   ranked 5,867 out of 23,366 in relationships   3 months ago

I don't think that would ever happen to me because I always bring my phone with me wherever I go. But if something like that should happen to me, I would be disappointed because my privacy has been violated. I would probably confront my friend as calmly as I can and tell her that I am not happy with what she did and explain to her that she has betrayed my trust because of what she has done.

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8. myLot reputation of 30/100. poojarai2007 (171)   ranked 20,864 out of 23,366 in relationships   3 months ago

I don't like anybody read my mobile massage because i have some privacy and i am not give permission to do this either my family or friends everybody want some privacy so if i feel my massages are not save anybody read any time and i cant do anything so i just delete my all massages every fortnight. What are you doing guys?

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9. myLot reputation of 96/100. janebeth (916)   ranked 977 out of 23,366 in relationships   3 months ago

well at first i would definitely be disappointed, and i think that friend of mine has no right to read my messages, if he/she has a common sense, of course they will not do it.. knowingly that cellphones now are very private, but if ever it will happen to me, ahmm, dunno what will i do..!! but i have nothing to hide on it, i am confident enough to let them borrow it.. happyhappy

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10. myLot reputation of 93/100. hexeduser22 (689)   ranked 4,541 out of 23,366 in relationships   3 months ago

I would get upset of course, even though I don't have anything to hide it's kinda rude for someone to invade someones privacy without his/her permission. It's like reading someone else diary.


myLot reputation of 98/100. careguarden (499)   ranked 641 out of 23,366 in relationships  3 months ago

Yeah, I agree with you. It's kinda rude and disrespectful and I don't really tolerate that kind of behavior.

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