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prettycho (39)1 month ago

I know someone who goes through emotional and mental torture inflicted by her boss. THere are several times that he has threatened to fire her or charge her for missing items that were clearly not her responsibility for maintenance and security. This has been going on for quite awhile and she has tendered resignations many times, but each time her boss would talk her out of it.

Has any of you had similar experiences?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 75/100. karenkaren (171)   1 month ago

That's awful. If that happens to me, I would immediately take off as soon as I can. And if my boss won't let me, I will report it to the authorities/department of labor.
Fight for your rights!


prettycho (39)  1 month ago

Thanks. I have been telling her the same thing. Her boss always make threats about firing her. It's funny because she could easily get another job with her qualifications. I guess she has grown to love the company and the people on it as well as the fact that she is the type to dread having to deal with a major change in her life.

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2. myLot reputation of 94/100. JDy116 (1432)   1 month ago

No one has the right to do that to her even if he is her boss. If I were her, I would just AWOL. Or I will file complaints and seek help from labor offices to report him first so that that evil boss can be prevented accusing her of leaving the company without leave because she stole something.

Ask her to seek the help of somebody else preferably someone in the authority and leave the job ASAP.


prettycho (39)  1 month ago

Thank you. I think I would have to ask her to read all posts here to convince that what she is subjected to is definitely not normal. I guess, we Filipinos are of the timid type. It's not ask if she would have trouble finding another job.

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3. myLot reputation of 87/100. advokatku (693)   1 month ago

have the boss arrogant is a bad experience mentally.

My experience dealing boss like that is a record of all work orders that governed the boss. with record like that, I have a basic command of evidence and work clear. Later, when he was still angry over what I have done, I live to show those records


prettycho (39)  1 month ago

This is definitely a sound advice coming from you. And I would have to agree, the best way to dispute accusations and threats would be to show him facts and records. I guess there are just some people who does not have qualms mentally and emotionally torturing other people.

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. scheng1 (1656)   ranked 21 out of 467 in office   1 month ago

Hi Prettycho, your friend is too weak. She should find a new job, and then tendered resignation. In this case, her boss will not be able to talk her into staying in the job.
Since she has cried wolf so many times, and taken no action, she's putting up with all the mental tortures.
Sorry to say that I dont feel sorry for her, she could have taken action to get herself out of this situation.
I pity those who cannot quit the job because of the bond. Some of them signed for three years bond, and they couldn't just quit. These are the ones who cannot quit even though they been through all kind of mental torture.

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5. jacksong (65)   ranked 359 out of 467 in office   3 weeks ago


I also think your friend must figure it out quickly, it's harmful to her in this kind of circumstance, But I can totally understand, when a person was farmiliar with some enviroment, he/she would not willing to change. I am a little the same kind of person.

Hope she have found a good job now.


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