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How to build relationship with ex Buddy??? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 90/100. srikandi19 (1816)   ranked 8 out of 170 in high school3 months ago

When I at high school, I have a buddy, or should I say, an ex-buddy? The thing is, she is not talking to me because of an incident. You see, she has a crush on a classmate but doesn't have the guts to tell him.
One day, after school, I walk with the guy on errand and My buddy didn't know this, but unfortunately, he saw the guy and me on our way back to school after completing the errand.
As you might have guessed, she jumped to conclusions and now thinks I'm a backstabber friend who tries to take crush away. I don't want to lose her as a buddy, but I'm also offended that she could think so low of me.
What do you think I should do???

 
 
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kun2349 (7356) response was accepted on 10/24/2009.
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tags:  ex-buddy, build relationship, relationship, friend
 
1. myLot reputation of 85/100. kling2388 (1513)   3 months ago

Well just talk to him/her and tell them the truth. That the fight was in the past and you would like to fix things and become friends again. But, you have to give it some time because you cant rush a friendship just like u cant rush into a relationship.

But I still think you two should try to talk.. Having a conflict with that kind of issue is not enough to destroy a friendship. happy


myLot reputation of 90/100. srikandi19 (1816)   ranked 8 out of 170 in high school  3 months ago

Thanks for your advice.
I don't want loss friend, especially buddy.

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2. myLot reputation of 96/100. kun2349 (7356)   3 months ago

Well, explain to her, and that's the best way out.. For she already seen with her eyes, of what happened, thus it's gonna be hard for her to 'forgive'.. Because to many others, seeing is believing.. haha=D

OR u should get the guy to explain to her as well, and that will solve all problems.. hehe^_^ If not, worse comes to worse, u have to lie to your fren instead.. BY saying, u and the guy are on errand, and at the same time, u are testing out his feelings for your fren.. hehe

Maybe in a way, your fren will be too excited to be feeling angry^_^


myLot reputation of 90/100. srikandi19 (1816)   ranked 8 out of 170 in high school  3 months ago

I feel hard to explained it to my friend.
by the way, thanks for your advice, I will trying again.


myLot reputation of 96/100. kun2349 (7356)  3 months ago

If she does not wanna listen, then just let her be.. True buddies wont be falling out, due to such things, and over a guy.. haha=D

Thanks for the pencil^_^

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3. myLot reputation of 22/100. Apple3Cranberry (615)   1 month ago

Well I think she should tell him. That way things will get straight. Then she'll have a boyfriend. Also, if he doesn't like her, then she will know.

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4. myLot reputation of 90/100. suprabha_77777 (149)   4 weeks ago

go and talk to her try to convince her what u were suppose to do. tell sorry make her to tell sorry... shake hands then friendly hug. be friends

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