In a relationship, it is very seldom to happen "A lover can become good friends"
By airasheila
@airasheila (5454)
Philippines
October 22, 2009 3:53pm CST
"A lover cannot become good friends" this phrase is a common term that usually arise during a relationship break-up. Lovers who started as friends sometimes forget that they started their relationship as friends. The moment they start their argument they never think that the foundation of their relationship as lovers is their friendship. The tendency, they began to hurt each other. They easily forget those times when they are still good friends. Hence, they will just set aside how their relationship as lovers was started. Also, it sometimes happens, they are throwing / saying a words that can hurt each other. Not to mention, this words might touch the alter ego of the other. And, the result is a final break-up. Then, after a break-up happened, we will just end up in thinking, why a lover cannot become good friends though the lovers before are very good friends.
2 responses
@larish (2263)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
Yes, i agree on this. I never been friends with my exes. I can describe my relationship with them as civil. If I met them in gatherings, I would acknowledge their presence but by being a friend to them like a confidant after breaking up is a no no for me. I think I will not be able to move on if we remain to have constant communication after the break up. It is much healthier if we just remain civil with each other.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
Its hard to make friends especially to your "exes". Sometimes, you cannot control the feelings and there are times, you will have the feeling of shyness to talk to each other.
@scoutsniper85 (432)
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19 Nov 09
i find it hard why friendship can't be establish after a break-up..I guess the feeling Is still there when both are ignoring each other..But both can be good friends after their break-up as long as they would not hurt one's feelings anymore.
