Disadvantage of being a favorite child =(
By mielshare
@mielshare (265)
Philippines
October 23, 2009 4:16am CST
I am the favorite of my Dad my siblings use to say that. At first, I am overwhelmed with that idea but as time goes by it's not as fun as it seems because my siblings starts to get jealous with me. I started hearing comments from them. It's ok with me that they comment but they started getting bitter with my dad that's why I am not in a diffecult situation. Of course I want to be the favorite of my dad but I don't want my siblings to be bitter with my dad.
Please help me what should I do?
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2 responses
@jen20ixm (165)
• Philippines
23 Oct 09
first of all, why do you think you're the favorite daughter or son of your father? do you look like much him? are good with your study than your siblings? or are you much sweeter to your dad than the other? im too, have 4 siblings, and i know how your siblings feel, well one of you, you or your siblings should tell your father about the situationa nd maybe by that you could fix the misunderstanding.
@mielshare (265)
• Philippines
26 Oct 09
actually its my siblings who says that i'm my dad'd favorite because all the favor is in me..I don't know why maybe because I am sweeter to my dad than them.
@danitykane (3183)
• Philippines
23 Oct 09
hi mielshare!
I always think that I am the favorite among the children. I can't blame my parents for that... because I'm so adorable!
hahaha.. Kidding aside, jealousy among siblings is normal. Actually, i'm the youngest in our family...so it means that the attention was on me especially during my younger years. But it doesn't stick to my mind that I was the favorite or I'm the apple of their (my parents) eyes. And there is no competition with us...we don't think that the favorite is the luckiest or she got the most care, love and attention.
Like you said, you want to be your dad's favorite...but you don't want to hurt your siblings so what it means? You just want to be a good daughter. Honestly, you don't have to be your dads favorite...you cannot choose it, he has the power though. You can always be a good daughter and thats the most important role of every child I think.
hahaha.. Kidding aside, jealousy among siblings is normal. Actually, i'm the youngest in our family...so it means that the attention was on me especially during my younger years. But it doesn't stick to my mind that I was the favorite or I'm the apple of their (my parents) eyes. And there is no competition with us...we don't think that the favorite is the luckiest or she got the most care, love and attention.
Like you said, you want to be your dad's favorite...but you don't want to hurt your siblings so what it means? You just want to be a good daughter. Honestly, you don't have to be your dads favorite...you cannot choose it, he has the power though. You can always be a good daughter and thats the most important role of every child I think.
@mielshare (265)
• Philippines
26 Oct 09
thanks danitykane..yah I want to be a good daughter and a good sister as well..



