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myLot reputation of 91/100. manong05 (2930)   ranked 29 out of 38,524 in life3 months ago

I was advised by a friend long ago that being concerned and being worried are two different things. We can be concerned and not exactly be worried. Worrying too much does not help solve problems. I can never forget that advise and as I go on in life, I experience that it is indeed true.

The effects and it's magnitude may vary in different individuals.

To you personally how does worrying too much affect you?

How do you overcome worry?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 96/100. blindedfox (1731)   ranked 10,869 out of 38,524 in life   3 months ago

Hmm.. In my case, I tend to be more irritable when I worry. Sometimes I also fall to the point where I don't remember why I am worried in the first place at all. It also have physical effects on me. I tend to lose weight when I worry too much. But Im trying my best to avoid those, and thank God I am able to do it somehow.

Thanks and good day. Nice topic.=)


myLot reputation of 91/100. manong05 (2930)   ranked 29 out of 38,524 in life  3 months ago

Yes, being irritable is one obvious effect in many people. Often when we come to our senses we even ask ourselves why did we have to worry in the first place.


myLot reputation of 98/100. danitykane (1177)   ranked 6,409 out of 38,524 in life  3 months ago

you lose weight?! lollol Now...I want to worry more...hahaha joke. I want to lose some weight. hahasurrender

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. danitykane (1177)   ranked 6,409 out of 38,524 in life   3 months ago

Worrying just make things worse. lol I can't think straight and it seems that I often made some mistakes every time I worry too much. I think it is better to be concern than to worry about things. Worrying sometimes cause stress, which is not good. But you know, in this life we are likely to be uneasy and we tend to worry a lot..it's like our nature I guess. But there are some who worry too much, that i don't find valid anymore....the're just making the situation complicated. rolleyes

Happy mylotting manong!thumbup


myLot reputation of 91/100. manong05 (2930)   ranked 29 out of 38,524 in life  3 months ago

So you have discovered one good way to lose weight. Hahaha It maybe a good one but the side effects are not that good. They are emotionally wrecking. LOL

Yes worrying too much will not change the circumstances, we are just punishing ourselves. I was on a plane one time and the person sitting next to me was worrying too much that the plane might crash to the point that his face was pale already. I tried to encourage him by saying, whether you worry or not, it will not affect the planes structure, this is the safest mode of travel. I don't believe this will crash. Hearing the word crash made him tremble more. I shouldn't have said it.

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3. myLot reputation of 93/100. sandymay16 (1330)   ranked 7,245 out of 38,524 in life   3 months ago

Worrying too much can cause stress related anxiety. I know someone who went to the doctor and was diagnosed with this. Medications will help but mostly the person can only help him or herself.
Too much worrying will give someone ulcers and gain or lose weight which in effect will give you eating disorders.
Taking steps one day at a time if having too much problems. Probems can't be solve overnight. And always think positively that things will realy fall into place after.


myLot reputation of 91/100. manong05 (2930)   ranked 29 out of 38,524 in life  3 months ago

True, worrying too much causes stress related anxieties and disorders. It's an attitudinal problem in a sense, difficult as it is to control, but never impossible.

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. izathewzia (3492)   ranked 2,592 out of 38,524 in life   3 months ago

It is damaging our health. And sending stress signal to our brain. It makes us restless and feel ill. But we can not avoid worrying sometimes. So prayer is the only solution for me.


myLot reputation of 91/100. manong05 (2930)   ranked 29 out of 38,524 in life  3 months ago

Yes, I agree with you. As the saying goes...why worry when you can pray..

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5. myLot reputation of 47/100. DiamondDogs (386)   ranked 6,570 out of 38,524 in life   3 months ago

I think that if you worry, then it's your personal problem and it should be kept to yourself and not be inflicted upon others.
My grandmother worries and worries, and that's all she ever seems to do nowadays. It's a worry. doh
People worry about her worrying about them and it's like a frikin' cancer. How could somebody so old have learnt so little? It's not an inspiration for old age, it would make me feel like topping myself if I ever get to be that old and be like that.
It also makes me feel like breaking contact with her to an extent. Don't be a worrier or nobody will want you around!


myLot reputation of 91/100. manong05 (2930)   ranked 29 out of 38,524 in life  3 months ago

That's true, worry seems to be very contagious. That is one ill effect I never thought of. It affects our relationship with other people too.

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6. myLot reputation of 79/100. bryandairogarcia (190)   ranked 3,503 out of 38,524 in life   3 months ago

I think this is the best advise I can give you. I learned it from reading a good people management book.

A problem is something that has a solution. If something does not have a solution and you only end up continuously worrying about it then maybe it is a "fact" of life.

It is rather vague at first but I think it simply says that a problem is something that you can fix or will get fixed eventually by someone on your behalf or by itself. If it goes beyond that then maybe you just have to make the better of the situation on stop seeing it as a problem because it may just really be a fact of life.

as the lion king puts it, "hakuna matata" - It's a worry free philosophy;)

Feel free to rate me ok:)


myLot reputation of 91/100. manong05 (2930)   ranked 29 out of 38,524 in life  3 months ago

thanks for the advice, great!

cheers!


myLot reputation of 79/100. bryandairogarcia (190)   ranked 3,503 out of 38,524 in life  3 months ago

Thanks! I appreciate you really commenting. I read one of your discussions and you are really living up with your words:)

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7. myLot reputation of 96/100. jpso138 (3807)   ranked 465 out of 38,524 in life   3 months ago

Well, we all know that worrying is not good for health. It can lead to a lot of problems. As you may know that worrying causes stress and when you are stress you are not in the condition to think well. So it would not be good to worry to much. Of course we cannot take out the possibility of thinking about a problem. But what is important is to deal the problem in the best manner possible.


myLot reputation of 91/100. manong05 (2930)   ranked 29 out of 38,524 in life  3 months ago

True, we must always be concerned but not necessarily worry too much, there is a big difference. When we are concerned, we analyze the problems, come up with solutions and apply them. When we worry too much, our objectivity is affected and when that happens proper solutions are elusive.

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8. myLot reputation of 93/100. msfrancisco9369 (2136)   ranked 2,997 out of 38,524 in life   3 months ago

Yes worrying too much is not good and healthy. It will bring lots of negative in your system. Based on my experience i suffered from the following had difficulty in breathing, i could not sleep/had insomia, no appettite in eating and i did lose weight. A former boss once told me to worry about the things that are worth worrying about -- because you can still do something about it. You just have to reflect on and assess how far you can do something about it. Those that are beyond your control leave it.


myLot reputation of 91/100. manong05 (2930)   ranked 29 out of 38,524 in life  3 months ago

That's a good word from your former boss. That's true. Yes, worrying too much is not healthy. You must have worried a lot to be able to affect your breathing and have insomnia but I agree with you, they are really caused by worrying excessively. The sad thing is, it doesn't change anything really. It just makes our life more miserable.

enjoy life!


myLot reputation of 93/100. msfrancisco9369 (2136)   ranked 2,997 out of 38,524 in life  3 months ago

Yes Manong it will just create another problem. So let's take it easy and enjoy life.


myLot reputation of 91/100. manong05 (2930)   ranked 29 out of 38,524 in life  3 months ago

indeed, there's more to life than just punishing ourselves worrying about something. It's a beautiful world out there.

cheers!


myLot reputation of 93/100. msfrancisco9369 (2136)   ranked 2,997 out of 38,524 in life  3 months ago

Cheers to you too! Life is too short to be spent on things not worth worrying about. Let's be kind to ourselves.

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9. myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (3024)   ranked 43 out of 38,524 in life   3 months ago

sad Stress and worry release hormones and chemicals into our system that damage it over time. It can lead to heart disease, sleepless nights, depression, anxiety, and bodily aches and pains...not to mention it destroys ones well being and sense of inner peace.

Some of the things known to combat stress and its harmful effects: exercise, meditation and other relaxation techniques, talking it over with someone, listening to relaxing music, getting outside and enjoying nature, writing our worries down in a journal, and when needed, seeking some professional help.

For me, the best way to eliminate worry is to take action to correct whatever is bothering me. Another technique I've used is the "20 minutes of worry a day" method. You set aside exactly 20 minutes at some point each day, and you do nothing but worry...if something other than worry creeps into your mind, push it away and get back to worrying.


When trying this, it makes one more aware of how fruitless it is to worry, or it becomes silly and boring or makes us laugh. The key is to worry ONLY during those 20 minutes. The rest of the day, you must shove worry away.

It's good, too, to realize what you have control over, and what things are totally outside of your control. Act on the things you can change, and quietly accept those things that are out of your control.

Karen


myLot reputation of 91/100. manong05 (2930)   ranked 29 out of 38,524 in life  3 months ago

Wow! I like the way you put it Karen, thanks. What a terrible thing "worry" is, isn't it. It can exactly ruin our health to the point of having a heart disease. It can really cause havoc to one's well being. No wonder that some people say "worry eats your soul" It does. The good thing is it can be controlled as it is only in our minds. Like what you said, we can actually decide to have a "20 minutes of worry a day". Good idea.


myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (3024)   ranked 43 out of 38,524 in life  3 months ago

Thank you, and yes, it can play havoc with our entire well-being if not gotten under control.

Good discussion!

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10. timetraveler (11)   3 months ago

Yes worries are dreadful. It can cause insomnia and even madness or lose of one's sanity if you're thinking too much.

Worrying has many drastic effects. I do not know what exactly is going on in the inside of the brain or of the body. But I can tell it's definitely toxic. It can kill you.


myLot reputation of 91/100. manong05 (2930)   ranked 29 out of 38,524 in life  3 months ago

Toxic, it is, I'm sure. Since our system releases chemicals when a person worries to much, these chemicals must be toxic. Yes, it can affect the brain to the point of losing one's sanity. How dreadful "worry" is.

cheers!

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