 Have you ever been in a relationship with a pathological liar, they lie so well they don't even know the truth anymore.
Not only do they lie about serious things they lie just to lie. They lie about what they had for dinner.
Lie about where they went to school, lie about what kind of gas they put in their car.
Lie about how many brothers an sisters they have, lie about what time they went to bed.
Lie about taking a shower instead of a bath.
Do you see where I'm going with this, they lie just to lie.
If you confront them they lie some more, and refuse to admit they are wrong.
IF you ask them a question they pretend not to understand what you said, so they can hurry up an make up a lie.
These people often aren't in touch with reality, because they have made so many lies, they can't up with facts.
So do you know any of these people if so, you should let them go, if they won't get help.
If your in a relationship with one, then get them help or send them packing, they may even love you, but they can't help but to lie, can't help but to cheat they can't help the way they are they need help.
If someone you know often runs off constantly, always tells stories that can't be true, gets defensive when you confront them, tries to turn things on you.
Never admits fault, never keep promises, never is anywhere on time, they make you feel like you are the one, but when they don't talk to you for days, an then finally show up, then they tell the most outlandish stores.
They got into a fight, they went to jail, they lost their phone, the car wouldn't start, they didn't pay their internet so it was shut off, someone stole their phone but then they found it.
They had to go away for business, but why didn't they contact you....hmm
They didn't get your texts they called the phone company to say the phone isn't working right.
Their voice mail is full an they don't know why.
Their phone dosen't get a good signal in the area they were in for a couple days.
When you talk about past things, they say I never said that your not remembering it right.
Their ex hacked their yahoo messenger an said some stuff that wasn't true, an thats why they don't remember.
This person they may even love you and show it, they may give you all the time they have when they are around, they may buy you things, they may go out of their way to do things for you, but make no mistake they are liars, an they have no guilt for what they do, they don't see consquences, they will keep doing what they are doing until you step up an call then out.
You tell them to get help if you care about them, if you tried already well then it's time to go, dosen't matter if your married if you have kids, no matter whether they love or not they will not change without help.
They will ruin your life, they will cheat an lie about everything, this is a sickness a disease, beware of the fork tongued charmers they will destroy you, ruin your family an break your immediate family an friend apart.
If you know someone like this get either them help, or run and never look back, they will always let you down, they will never keep promises, they will break your heart, it dosen't matter if it's a friend, a lover, a boyfriend/girlfriend, wife/husband run and never look back, either they get help, or you shut them out of your life.
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