What if the person you love was going to die in a few months

If someone I loved deeply was goin to die in afew months I'd want to spend time wiht them...

y does god love some people so much that he takes them away from u

People live..people die....I dont believe in god at all BUT life and death are a combo deal - its unchangeable so you have to deal with it as best as you can

y isnt life always happy

its not suppose to be....if life were always peaches and cream, happiness and peace what owuld be the point of living...We HAVE TO endure the hard parts of life in order to grow not only as individuals but as a society too..Its necessary to go through the hard times in order to truly appreciate the good times.

Life and living is a reality and not a story or a dream or pre-ordained or guaranteed. It is people themselves who try to regulate it with rules and religions and traditions.
But fate is just that.. We live and we die and in between are many journeys.. trials & tribulations, joys and wonderment. even love and hate. Look but to nature and one can compare the life of plants and animals on land and in the sea to the journey we people take.

We have an emotional side that makes the journey very hard for us, as we cannot basically accept what all happens in life.
If it were possible at all. I would want to spend as much time with a dear loved one who had little time left. Tobe there to understand and offer support and love and to help me understand also and come to terms with the impending death and loss in my life.

We suffer when others do, and I think it a shame that one would have to go through rituals and rules set in tradition to become near to someone and be there for that person who is dying..
why would a dying person care if you have a job? Why should her parents care?
Grief is a terrible burden for mankind. Too bad it is made even harder by rules and customs.

If you love her then marry her it does not matter how much money you have it does not cost much to marry surely her parents would want her to be happy in her last moments that's all that matters at the end of the day her happiness and it should not cost a lot to get married.

Well if there happen to anything to my girlfriend i would never forgive myself i would do anything i can to satisfy her last wishes,anyway life sometimes dont end well than with happy ending we may face bad endings it depends as how he choose in life to be,really someone i loved to face this sort of sitation is more than enough to change me.and life to be ruined within seconds.i hope i dont face this sort of commotion in my life.

Well, i am gonna spend my day every day to my dying lover and show all the love, care, respect, devotion and joy. Then, i would not let her confine to the bed, if he could still walk. i would bring here to see beautiful places and appreciate to see nature before he die. Then,if he could no longer walk, i would going to roam around the city park while driving where he could sit and have also a wheelchair. i would be the one to guide him and also visit the famous restaurant and order his favorite food. Then, also visit a church for him to hear mass asking for miracles..

well I guess it would be a bonus if I knew when my loved ones would be departing. It would probably hurt a lot less. I've lost so many loved ones un-expectantantly so knowing they're going would make it easier for me.

Well, it's a different situation 'coz you're a man and you should be the one to marry the girl. If I were to put myself in the man's shoe, I'll marry the girl 'coz I love her that much and I know that's the only thing I can make her happy during her last few days of her life and maybe even when she's in the other world.

We don't own our life so it is expected that we are all passers by, everything is just borrowed so, we have to give it back. We have to understand that life is what we make it. We may be happy today but it doesn't mean it is like that again tomorrow.

of course i feel sad and hurts that my love is dying but il nah let him see me sad...coz person whos dying they dnt like person especially there clsed one, do good 2 them 4 pity and sad.....i just act the same as usual as normal as we do shared everyday ... il give lots my time in him ...

If someones's death in certain and there is really nothing I can go about it, I'll exert more effort to make the persons's last moments on earth as happy as possible. Otherwise I will seek other ways to prevent death from getting him.

Life is a journey from the cradle to the grave and death comes regardless of age. I will not be blaming God for this but accept the fact that this happens. People come, people go, the death of some may just be ordinary for us but for others hurt us do much. My blaming and questioning God will not change anything about death.

Although I'll say that I will be strong when my loved one is about to pass away, I'm pretty sure I will cry maybe for the longest time in my life. It's a rule in love, it's a decision you should make. When you decided to love that person, it should always come with it that you are also ready to let that person go because in life there is no assurance of what may happen. You can never be sure that the one you love would always be with you. And that's one purpose of life, to make us grow and learn for us to become stronger for the next coming challenges that we have to face.

But I think it's really tough to accept you're loved one passing away. Come to think of this, all the hard work you put on everyday for that person, all the memories that made your sleepless nights uncomfortable. The best thing we can do is to pray, maybe that person will leave you now, but God won't. His always by your side, he is always around when you need his help. You should need to be motivated and accept everything, after this it would be easier for you to move on with your life.