i love him because i need him or i need him that's why i love him?

same like you, until now I still think about whether my couples who have become my wife was the person I love?

but I'm not really thinking about what love and how to make love. Which be I thought was how I could run it without must know anyone who loves and or who requires

Hmmm the question is quite tricky. But my answer will be I need her because i love her the other one is I think is a very selfish because she/he need to show love just to get her/his needs sounds like you don't really love that person and looks like your faking it.

I need my partner because i love him. He's really special to me, and even though he annoys me with the little things he does, we just get on so well. D:

hi,I'm suffering the same problem like you...Need,love?Maybe both.The question is which one counts more.I'm learning to avoid the hurt this problem brings to me.I prefer to love him less and need him less.

I need the person i love her. Because she is the importart person to share my happy, sad, and gives me the remarkable support to my entire life career. So I think i need the person who i love her. This is my point of view. How are u Panget20. Nice question keep it up.

panget20,

The theory of love needs are often logical to self, but illogical to others. Woman will never understand men's fascinations. And similarly, you don't need to understand why you are giving him trash because he will probably not know anyway - he just has to know the this is the woman he accepted as girlfriend ... this is a matter choice to begin with.

Some women loves a man like you and they don't mind enduring that emotional sacrifice, knowing that whatever you are doing right now, it's for the future together and they so love a responsible man like yourself. But there are also a group of women who cherish and appreciate spending quality time with their other half, much more than you telling them you are going to spent the next year working hard, likely to be at the expense of the relationship for a better home.

And I can tell you they are both equally right - just that from where they are standing, they are looking at love from different angles.

I remember an old story in the papers, where this man worked his guts out because he always felt the importance of finance and the ability to provide for the family. Then he read, also in the papers, about the story of this man who regretted not showing affection to his significant other when she was alive and now he can only spent his time at her grave.

Inspired by this article, he drove to Malaysia, with a bouquet of flower - wanting to give his wife a surprise and he end up getting a bigger surprise.

He gave his wife the flower and told her that he loves her. She cried incessantly, not only just because she was touched by his action, but also, if he has arrive an hour later, she would have committed suicide because she thought that her husband no longer loved her.

Love is not about looking at each other; but looking together at one collective direction.

It is unimportant about all the definitions and theories of love than them being applicable to you.

i think my main need from him will be his love and affection.i expect all his full attention and feel very happy when i can spend with him. love can never be defined but ranges from intimacy to full surrender and then the world is full of him. not a minute passes by with out his thoughts.i am happy to get such a partner who has equal feelings for me too.