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myLot reputation of 91/100. Skyeblue25 (194)   ranked 15 out of 387 in autism2 months ago

I have been offered several times medication for my son to calm him down. He is Autistic but also borderline ADHD. But everytime I have turned it down as I feel I cope quite well with my son without sedating him and I feel he doesn't need it. But I have a friend who's son has ADHD and he is on medication for it.

I find it a really difficult subject, because you read a lot of bad things about mediaction for kids. But I know my friend is happier her son takes his medication and she says he is happier for it. He finds school a lot easier so therefore because school is such a big part of our kids life it makes him happier all round.

Though I remember the struggle she had when he was first diognosed. It has taken the doctors ages to find the right medication for him. Some made him lose his appetite completely. Some made him like a zombie literally, others had the effect of making him more hyperactive. So it has been a long struggle to find the right one.

Personally I don't want to put my child through that, I feel it is almost using them like guinea pigs to find the right combination of drugs for their illness.

I wondered what the views where here. I would love to hear some strong for and againsts arguments. Has anyone had first hand experience?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 90/100. Binthu (3246)   ranked 347 out of 387 in autism   2 months ago

Hi Sky,

You have to find the right physician in order to have the
good treatment for your son, but unfortunately we can not confirmed
that all the physician are more talent and has the good ability to
treat the dis order or diseases. But in general there are several
physician has different skills and different method of treatments and
also it would varied from physician to physician, so as a parents we
have the responsibility to find the suitable physician with high skills
and talents for our kids in order to have the good and useful treatment.
Basically all the doctor are good in nature and they are following their
ethics in the treatment and would thoughts about the well beings of the
humans. So try to find the right doctor for your kids in order to have the
good treatments.

Have a nice day.


myLot reputation of 91/100. Skyeblue25 (194)   ranked 15 out of 387 in autism  2 months ago

Thankyou for your reply, but I don't see Autism or ADHD as a disease or illness that can be treated with drugs. To me it is like the wiring in the brain is slightly different to the average person. Yours will join up but someone with ADHD or autism have the wires slightly misconnected. They are seen as mental illnesses. I know anti-deprssants are used for depression and work well with a lot of people but they too can have adverse effects.

I just don't feel enough is known mediaclly to be able to treat these illnesses with drugs as the brain is a very complicated piece of equipment. I am not judging the doctors as they are only doing what they believe is best for their patient.

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2. myLot reputation of 96/100. mommaj (1077)   ranked 9 out of 387 in autism   2 months ago

My son is four. They suggested I might want to put him on medication because he wakes up in the night. That medicine was more for me than him. So I said no. I feel that I can deal with him waking up.

It has to be a personal choice as to whether or not you think your child would benefit from the drug. You have to remember all medications have side effects and medicine effects different people differently. What made your friend's son crazy may work for your son. What is working for your friend's son may make your son crazy. It is not a guarantee that medications will work the same in everyone. When you are dealing with mind diseases, it's even more iffy about how it will effect the mind.

My father in law is severe diabetic. He takes shots and is supposed to regulate his sugar. It sounds easy enough. They had a heck of a time getting him the right dosage and the right kind of medicine. I guess that is why the doctors just practice medicine, there is no exact science.


myLot reputation of 91/100. Skyeblue25 (194)   ranked 15 out of 387 in autism  2 months ago

Your response reminded me of something my Mum told me. Apparently when I was very small she was offered drugs to make me sleep too. She refused as she didn't agree with medicating children like that, I think she is the reason I have my views on the matter.


myLot reputation of 96/100. mommaj (1077)   ranked 9 out of 387 in autism  2 months ago

HEHEHE. Your mum knew something the doctors still can't figure out. A mother's love is always going to be stronger than medicine.

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3. myLot reputation of 72/100. irishidid (3060)   ranked 10 out of 387 in autism   2 months ago

The medicines weren't wrong, the dosage was. If you feel he does fine without the medication, then that's fine too. Just don't take the idea of medications completely out of the picture.
My daughter was on medications but she also has several issues that included Autism, ADHD, anxiety disorder, OCD, and chronic tics. For her, the medications were a necessity but we never looked at them as being lifelong. She's been off all medications for the past few years and has chewed the collars of her shirts but as long as we can deal, I'll leave it be.
Far worse than the medications are the quack cures everyone is raving about. The crazy diets and all that is pure quackery. Then there's the big mouths like Jenny McCarthy who should be gagged. These kids aren't getting better because of the quack cures, they are getting better because of the attention being paid to them.


myLot reputation of 91/100. Skyeblue25 (194)   ranked 15 out of 387 in autism  2 months ago

Thanks for your response. I guess I don't feel my son is severe enough to be medicated, if he was worse then maybe I would consider it. I just don't like the way some medication changes the child.

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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (10051)   ranked 11 out of 387 in autism   2 months ago

I have no experience with medicating my son. I just have a very strong prejudice against using pharmaceuticals unless there is absolutely no other option. For one thing, there are the side effects that one of the other responders mentioned. For another, there are often natural remedies that have benefits without the side effects. Sadly, a lot of alternative types of practitioners (such as Naturopathy) aren't covered by most insurances. But if you can afford to see a Naturopathic doctor who has some experience with children with Autism and ADHD, I'd recommend giving it a try. We have somebody here on myLot, Hornswaggled, who has a lot of knowledge about herbs and other natural remedies also. You might want to give her a holler. Good luck!


myLot reputation of 91/100. Skyeblue25 (194)   ranked 15 out of 387 in autism  2 months ago

Thankyou for your response and the information. I haven't even considered medicating my son whether naturally or with prescription medicine, but the question for the discussion came about because a friend suggested I could use a herbal rememdy to calm him down and then the doctor suggested they may consider writing him up some presciption medication.

But I have refused both completely. I don't feel he needs medicating with either. Then I started thinking am I just being ignorant, could it help and I am shutting the very idea out just because I have fairly strong views on it? I am very fearful that by medicating him I could change his personality and I don't want to risk that in anyway.

I don't know, I am pretty certain no one could change my point of view but I wanted to hear what other people thought on the subject.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (10051)   ranked 11 out of 387 in autism  2 months ago

I haven't considered medicating my son either. I guess I would probably reconsider if he got so hyperactive that his schoolwork suffered. I would HATE it though.


myLot reputation of 91/100. Skyeblue25 (194)   ranked 15 out of 387 in autism  2 months ago

I don't think my son is hyper enough to be medicated. I know a lot of children are way more hyper than Daniel.

Daniel does struggle at school but not because he is hyper, more because he struggles to understand things in the way they are worded. But his teacher is very patient with him and helps him to understand everything he needs to know it just takes a little longer.

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5. myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (5868)   ranked 5 out of 387 in autism   4 weeks ago

I refuse to medicate my autistic son just because he's autistic. It makes me angry as well as sad when someone says he should be medicated. Why should he be medicated? Because he's different? Because he's not "normal"? What the hell is normal anyway? We are all different in our own way. It's what makes us unique.

Okay, so I know that isn't exactly the same thing as autistic people don't function the same way as most people do. But still, they shouldn't have to be medicated because of it.

It's great that your friend found meds to help her son and all, but personally I wouldn't want my son to go through all that and just to find the right combination of drugs. Plus I'm not interested in drugs fixing the "problem". I think that's what's wrong with society. As soon as there is any kind of "problem" drugs are the solution. Well, I have to say this girl isn't into that sort of thing. There are many valid reasons to use drugs, but to me medicating an autistic child isn't one of them.

As it is a lot of drugs can do more harm than good. It would kill me if something were to happen to my son all because he was on some drug. I'd never be able to forgive myself.

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