Is it fair if a someone wants to be loved, then he will do every ways???
By riani2009
@riani2009 (581)
Indonesia
November 1, 2009 9:02pm CST
I remember my friend a long time ago. Once there was someone who liked her. At the first time she didn't like this person and rejected him. But, somehow this guy never gave up, so he tried very hard to persuade her. One thing I remembered was he trapped her family into tricky bussiness. The sad thing was her family drawn in debt. He offered his help on condition he could married my friend. Now, they got married but I saw her I could see a glance of sadness on her eyes..I asked myself.. is it fair to have love by doing such things???
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5 responses
@smallcloud (338)
• Malaysia
4 Nov 09
it is not love, it is trade, cheating, even is something of having. you jus wan to make the person belong to you, but not the heart. it is not called love, it is selfish, especially using some dirty way to get a person.
love is to see the happy of her eyes, not the sadness of her eyes.
if you really love a person, do u able to see your beloved tear or feel sadness. it is so cruel.it is no longer to call love, it is begin crazy.
hope your friend can run away from the situation, all the best to her.
@riani2009 (581)
• Indonesia
6 Nov 09
Thanks for your wish and pray...hope she can handle the problem well..
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
2 Nov 09
That's terrible thing to do. I see those cases in movies too.
That man is SELFISH! However, since she already married to him,
I hope he will genuinely love her, and turn into a new leaf.
Wish her happiness and see her children achieve true happiness,
joy and love
@riani2009 (581)
• Indonesia
3 Nov 09
well..I hope so..I hope the man really loves her so that she will be able to love him too. In the end, they will nurture a happy family...
@corrycrystal (1775)
• Malaysia
2 Nov 09
I think the guy is so selfish because he only thinks about himself. He plotted everything just to get what he wants and offered help in exchange of marriage to your friend.
Oh my, he even traded love and he should be shameful of himself. Love cannot be forced and if he really loves your friend, he should let her go because in the end, he is the only one who is happy, but everyone is suffering especially your friend. 
@riani2009 (581)
• Indonesia
3 Nov 09
The reality is like that.. I hope she can survive in this kind of mariage.
@GaryJoule (211)
• China
2 Nov 09
He's a dangerous man.
He just wants to own her rather than love her.
Some day if he get sick of her, he'll dump her by all means as well.
