!!!!!!!!!!2 Best Friends 1 Girl!!!!!!!!!!!! Help Needed Friends.
By sunnycool
@sunnycool (12714)
India
November 2, 2009 10:09pm CST
I have answered to many people who asked for suggestions.little did i know that there would be one day where i need your suggestion mylotters.I and my best friend are very popular in our college frankly i am much more than him coz he is very shy and calm so he doesnt interact with many but he is gud at studies..but the problem has started here.you can find both me nd my friend together everytime all the time in the college.
i had a crush on my direct junior.she has expressed interest in me too.we used to exchange our looks.but my friend mistook those looks nd thought tat she was interested in him coz we are together most of the time.days passed on and she came and proposed to me at the freshers party and i too accepted her proposal.The next day i came to know tat even my best friend loves her(i never knew tat he misunderstood).i am really puzzled.what should i do now.shall i tell him the truth r what should i do?
1 response
@crystallight1l (347)
• Canada
3 Nov 09
You don't have a choice currently. Tell him is important for preventing any other confusion and misinterpretation. Although telling him is the optimal choice, it's best to say it with empathy. Say it quietly, and secretly with him in a calm and non crowded place (Library is bad...for this). Explain what are your thoughts to him and ask for his forgiveness (i.e. for not telling him about this b4). The risk is breaking friendships / relationships (with the girl), but it's the only way to cease other misunderstandings.
Good Luck! It's a very hard choice, but the key is usually the precarious solution. ;)
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
3 Nov 09
i have tried to tell him the truth but he seems to be really mad for her tats why i am puzzled as wat to do.I am in fear of loosing him coz he might take me wrong i dont want to loose his friendship at the same time my love as well.
