Gays Adopt Children Just So They Can Abuse Them.....

My thoughts exactly God has made us all so he made them to

WELCOME BACK LITTLEOWL!!! Long time, NO see!!! My first husband didn't believe in hell either. He said being condemned to live on earth was living in hell & we were kept here until we learned our lesson. He felt God gave each of us a path to walk & our souls travel from one body to the next until we learn what we were sent her to learn. Once we learn our lesson, our soul leaves the earthly body & travels to Heaven. That goes against everything I was taught, but it did make sense to me. I never could believe that God would send anybody to hell, so I prefer to believe that living here on earth is living in hell!!!

I know you meant that in jest, but studies show that to be a true fact. The louder somebody objects, the more likely they are to join the lifestyle. Think back over the years at the members of Congress who yelled the loudest that have since come out of the closet whether intentionally or unintentionally. Then there's Jimmy Swaggert who raised his voice against immorality (not just against the homosexual community) & then was caught being as immoral as anybody he was condemning. I was raised to beware of those who protest too much. As it seems they fear their own desires!!! I seriously doubt my friend has lesbian tendencies, but I do think she fears her thoughts for whatever reason. I've always felt she had the right to feel what she was feeling, but she pushed it too far when she stretched it to say gays adopt children in order to abuse them. Now I must educate her so she can look at things differently.

OMG, she is such a GREAT friend in so many ways, dropping her is NOT an option!!! She is entitled to her opinion. It just this particular opinion is so far out there, I want to educate her as to her ignorance. We've had many heated discussions on gay rights, but this was the first time she's ever pulled the "God told me last night..." out of her head. Maybe once she started the debate, she changed her mind & just wanted me to shut up. It worked...temporarily!!! Now for round 2...

Will they be brought up to become like them and live a homosexual life? Using your logic, we'd have NO homosexuals!!!! Look around you....heterosexuals had EVERY homosexual child ever born. Were these children not brought up to become like them & live a heterosexual lifestyle??? YES. Did it take??? NO!!! Why, you might ask??? HOMOSEXUALITY IS NOT A LIFESTYLE...IT IS HOW THEY WERE CREATED BY GOD!!! Contrary to what my friend claims to believe, the devil does NOT have the ability to create human life. Once again using your logic, a family has 8 children & ONLY 1 is gay. Was the gay child not raised the same way as the straight child??? Therefore, having heterosexual parents does NOT stop a child from being gay....So, having homosexual parents will NOT make a child gay!!! Will they have a disorientation as far as sexuality is concerned? NO!!! Why you might ask??? Could it be that they grow up with an OPEN mind as to sexuality. I have NEVER heard a homosexual say that it is WRONG for a man & a woman to be married & have children. Looking at it from your point of view, is it not the heterosexual parents who are abusing their child by insisting that there is NO other way to feel but the way they feel??? How are they going to relate to children who have normal parents? Normal parents??? What, pray tell, is a normal parent. Waking up every day is normal. Going to sleep every night is normal. Loving your partner & child is normal. So, it sounds to me as though homosexual parents are as normal as anyone!!! I have homosexual friends with children. Their children are polite & kind & they have manners...very much unlike the children of many heterosexual couples. They love Mommy & Mommy (or Daddy & Daddy) just like the heterosexual couples do. I've NEVER heard one of them make fun of a child with a heterosexual couple for parents. Half truths aren't enough proof in my eyes. The same arguments can easily be applied to heterosexual parents. So, are you saying that EVERY parent on the face of the earth is abusing their child??? NO, I didn't think so!!!

Lady M I AGREE with every word you have said..as in my comment I will repeat I am a heterosexual, but have GAY son, he did not CHOOSE to be this way he was born that way..yet I love him to bits and he is one of the most polite, thoughtful, caring people I know as well as my heterosexual frends I have GAY frinds who are nicer than my how my heterosexual friends can be at times. The other thing is I NEVER brought my Son up or taught him to be homosexual either...LoLo

WELCOME TO MYLOT KITTYKAT!!! Thank you for understanding what I'm trying to say!!!

I've found 3 different studies that prove my point!!! God ALWAYS talks to this girl when she wants to prove her point!!! The Bible says "Love thy neighbor as thyself." NOWHERE does it add "unless they are gay!!!"

Amen!

I'm not expecting her to accept everything about the gay lifestyle. However, I am asking her to NOT make up statistics just to prove her point!!! When I recovered from my shock & attempted to engage her once again, she challenged me to prove my point. So, I'm searching for facts & figures to prove my point. I've had several people PM me with links yesterday that not only backed up my point that her thinking is just plain WRONG. Some of the facts are just plain staggering. I've printed out a good sized novel of facts & figures by experts in their field. One such study concluded that the ratio of hetero males to gay males that abuse children is as high as 11 to 1. That in NO ways holds up he idea that gays adopt children just to abuse them. It tells me just the opposite. It indicates heterosexual males create children just so the can abuse them. I'm looking forward to hearing her explanation for that one!!!