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myLot reputation of 99/100. prikayjo2436 (221)   ranked 1,540 out of 35,410 in people2 months ago

I was at home just about all day yesterday... But at around late evening I heard people talking outside.. I opened the door to find the neighbors outside... One of the guys there are my boyfriends closest friends and his pregnant girlfriend.. As I walked over to say hi to all of them, I noticed that she was smoking!!! I was so angry! How could a pregnant, mother to be do such a thing? I just said hi and walked away. If you were in my shoes would you have said something? When I see her again should I mention it? Let me know your input! Thanks!

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 97/100. jeanena (832)   ranked 1,136 out of 35,410 in people   2 months ago

I am not trying to say whether it is right or wrong to smoke while you are pregnant . But I will tell you I am a smoker, I also have 5 kids. I smoked while I was pregnant . I cut down the amount I smoked while pregnant. But I also had a doctor who told me that If i could cut down it would be alright. I lost a baby due to stress in between my first 2 kids..Stress that comes with stopping cigarettes cold turkey . So the next time I became pregnant the dr said cut down.


myLot reputation of 99/100. prikayjo2436 (221)   ranked 1,540 out of 35,410 in people  2 months ago

Hi Jean!
So it really isn't a bad thing, I take it?!?! I don't know... But I feel as if I should say something, especially if they want me to be the baby's God Mother... She wasn't a heavy smoker before, so I don't see why she would still need to smoke now. Well thanks for your input, I suppose its not that much as a big deal... Thanks for responding

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. geminikid (1071)   ranked 5,315 out of 35,410 in people   2 months ago

I would just leave it alone, because it is really nobody else's businesses. If she harms her child she has nobody to blame but herself


myLot reputation of 99/100. prikayjo2436 (221)   ranked 1,540 out of 35,410 in people  2 months ago

Hey geminikid!
Always nice to hear your input... Yes I agree she is only hurting herself... Thanks for responding!

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3. myLot reputation of 83/100. crys7881 (196)   ranked 16,761 out of 35,410 in people   2 months ago

I completely agree with you, how can someone do something that would harm their baby?? I just don't get it!!! I know it is an extremely touchy subject with some people tho so I don't know if I would say anything because it just might make her mad and she could go off on you!! lol that wouldn't be a good situation....but if it was me I wouldn't be around her or if I had to be I would honestly give her dirty looks when she was smoking! That is just something I can't agree with! Babies are precious gifts so doing anything that would harm them while pregnant is just beyond me!!


myLot reputation of 99/100. prikayjo2436 (221)   ranked 1,540 out of 35,410 in people  2 months ago

Hi Crys!
Well, I agree with you.. I so can't wait to see her again! I am not going to be mean to her, I am just going to tell her as politely as I can... I don't like feeling tension when I am around people! I just can't believe that she will be doing something like that, when just the other day she was telling me, how good she is taking care of herself! Babies are precious, I just hope that the little one inside her, comes out as healthy as her first child! Always nice to hear from you girl!

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. maximax8 (10724)   ranked 28 out of 35,410 in people   1 month ago

It is best to avoid smoking and not to drink much alcohol during pregnancy. Smoking during pregnancy can make the baby have a low birth weight. I don't think it is right for a lady to smoke cigarettes during pregnancy. I am not a smoker but I do have friends that have tried to give up smoking. In early pregnancy a lady can feel tired and emotional. It is difficult for some pregnant ladies to give up smoking.


myLot reputation of 99/100. prikayjo2436 (221)   ranked 1,540 out of 35,410 in people  1 month ago

Hi Maxi!
I know that is why, I was so upset to see her doing that... She has a son already, shouldn't she know better?

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