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beautifulBrooke (70)   ranked 16,094 out of 23,111 in relationships4 weeks ago

It's very common in the world today for people to NOT be virgins when they marry.
I have a questions for all of you...
When you do finally settle into a strong committed relationship, are you honest about the number of past lovers you have had?
If not, why not?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 91/100. smileonstar (2145)   ranked 883 out of 23,111 in relationships   4 weeks ago

Hello,
for me, if someone is willing to love me then I will open up with him. But if he can't handle it then I have to get ready to let him go.
Actually, I didn't have many as my friends did.
Men usually hide about their past... but im not sure about women.

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2. myLot reputation of 91/100. anotherxidentity (880)   ranked 1,244 out of 23,111 in relationships   4 weeks ago

For me I've constantly been open about the number of partners I've had in the past if my current partner asks. The thing about it is I don't think its necessary to go into a ton of details with your current partner about the exs because in the end that could only cause more damage than any good. So yeah if they ask, go ahead and answer but don't have deep long conversations saying every thing you did with each of them.

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3. myLot reputation of 75/100. lisaproctor123 (137)   ranked 4,291 out of 23,111 in relationships   3 weeks ago

when i first met my husband i told him all bout my past lovers plus i had already had one child plus i was pregnant with my second so he took them on as his own

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. book1962 (14493)   ranked 850 out of 23,111 in relationships   1 week ago

hi beautifulBrooke, I had some boyfriends before I got married but only had s*x with one of them. May sound very outdated today when almost every lovc story ends in bed.
So I had no reason to be ashamed of my past and no reason to hide anything as well.

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