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winnieying66 (22)   ranked 11,215 out of 19,084 in questions & answers4 weeks ago

since i'm growing up,i find it is hardly for me to make decisions,like what to eat today or what to do this afternoon and so on,this trivial things take me a lot of time to think an make choice,not to mention the important decision.when i have to make this decision,i have to discuss my problem to my friends and obtain their advice.
how about you?and when you make a decision,you just make yourself or look for other people's advice.

 
 
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dodyast3 (758) response was accepted on 11/6/2009.
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1. myLot reputation of 85/100. dodyast3 (758)   ranked 668 out of 19,084 in questions & answers   4 weeks ago

If it is only a decision for daily activities like what to eat or what to do, I usually take the decision very quickly. I just try to remember the nearest restaurant near me and then I decide what to eat. For the decision what I want to do, I usually call my friends where they want to hang out this afternoon. If they don't have any plan yet, so we decided together. That's if you are still single. If you already married, then you need to ask your husband or wife whether he/she wants to go somewhere or you can tell him/her that you want to go somewhere if he/she has no plan to go.


winnieying66 (22)   ranked 11,215 out of 19,084 in questions & answers  4 weeks ago

how about the important decisions?which one's advice you admire most and why?


myLot reputation of 85/100. dodyast3 (758)   ranked 668 out of 19,084 in questions & answers  4 weeks ago

The advice from our family is the best advice. No one will understand us more then our family


winnieying66 (22)   ranked 11,215 out of 19,084 in questions & answers  4 weeks ago

well, could you please give me some more details about why you think family is the best one who know you,to be honest,it is true,but sometimes i do not think parents or other family members know what your truly want and think.


myLot reputation of 85/100. dodyast3 (758)   ranked 668 out of 19,084 in questions & answers  4 weeks ago

The family may not know exactly what we want or best for us, but at least, they are the closest people we have. If we are comparing to friends or boy/girlfriend, I think our family is more credible to help us to make a decision. We can ask opinion to friends, boy/girlfriend, colleagues, or any other person, but it is just an additional information for your consideration. The best opinion always come to our family.

By the way, thanks for the best response thumbup


winnieying66 (22)   ranked 11,215 out of 19,084 in questions & answers  4 weeks ago

Don't mention it, i appreciate your comments.

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2. myLot reputation of 81/100. reco13 (172)   ranked 2,380 out of 19,084 in questions & answers   4 weeks ago

Hi winnieying! Actually, it's not so hard for me in deciding on things. I have developed a good decision-making skills since I was young. As I grew older, I even tried to be independent in many ways. And as a result of that independence is my responsibility for my own decisions and actions,. Although I usually ask advice from the most important persons in my life, like my parents and family. I consider their opinions but it's still up to me if I will follow them or not.:)


winnieying66 (22)   ranked 11,215 out of 19,084 in questions & answers  4 weeks ago

well,it's hard for me to make decisions like you do,hope i can handle this problem and thanks for your sharing.

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3. myLot reputation of 40/100. mmxida (111)   ranked 10,412 out of 19,084 in questions & answers   4 weeks ago

Hi, winnieying66!
On the trivial things, I usually make my own decisions, and rarely to listen to my parents's or friends's advice. For those more important things, i usually compare the pros and cons of decision i made, then I will go to my parents or friends to ask their advice. But I think learn to make our own decisions is necessary, after all, we have to face our live and do things ourselfs.
Have a nice day, winnieying66


winnieying66 (22)   ranked 11,215 out of 19,084 in questions & answers  4 weeks ago

thanks,mmxida.

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4. AlimK1983 (5)   4 weeks ago

When it comes to making important decisions, I usually like to get advice from my family and friends first. I like to get their perspective on the matter. After that, I analyze the situation in detail. After going over the pros and cons, I then come to making a final decision.

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5. myLot reputation of 99/100. puddytatt (840)   ranked 2,813 out of 19,084 in questions & answers   4 weeks ago

if it's just planning a meal i just look and see what i have, but if i have to make an important decision i just follow my heart and go for it....

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6. myLot reputation of 85/100. JBorgL (670)   ranked 11,021 out of 19,084 in questions & answers   4 weeks ago

Hi there... That seems tough! Small decisions often come easy for me, but when I have to make larger choices, then I often collect as many facts as I can and then try to make an informed decision.

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7. myLot reputation of 94/100. rg0205 (1718)   ranked 791 out of 19,084 in questions & answers   4 weeks ago

When it comes to important decisions, I tend to take a little time to think. If i need advice, I would ask the people I trust and those who have only my best interests at heart and then I'll compare with mine and make a decision. I'm not impulsive so I do try to analyze before I make any major decisions.

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8. habbeysax (49)   4 weeks ago

Decide on what to do rather than making decision.

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9. tableknift (7)   4 weeks ago

talking with my friends about that,

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