Whom we can blame for " Divorces" in majority cases...

From my experience, I don´t think only one person of the couple is to "blame". They just were not made for another and for several reasons, they did not discovered it until too late.
I don´t think the children are better if the parents live together just for their sake. At least not in my culture. There is too much negative energy and the children notice it and suffer.
Human bings are so complex that it is difficult for two people to live together. Things are worse now because the man and woman roles have changes as compared with the traditional ones. As money has become a thing more precious than other values, people are willing to do a lot of things to get it. Family ties and marriage suffer with that.
Have a nice day, friend!