Who will give up first You or Your Partner , when there is an argument between U
By priyavivek
@priyavivek (681)
India
5 responses
@simonelee (2715)
• China
6 Nov 09
Hello, priyavivek. In our case I do shut my mouth for the reasons to avoid worsening the argument and I just let the issue past and she hates it. She's a type of person who wants to hear everything even if it hurts. But keeping quiet has both negative to us.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
6 Nov 09
"both negative" effect to us. For years she adopts my attitude and I don't like the feeling being ignored. Now, I'm still trying to change my attitude.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
6 Nov 09
LOL that would be my husband...I am the type that when I'm mad I wont stop until I'm sure that my point has been made and I've got it out of my system...that can take hours LOL so usually my husband would be the one to give in just to bring it to an end...Mind you its been a couple yrs since we have had an arguement so I dont know what would happen now if we wre to
@priyavivek (681)
• India
6 Nov 09
I think Ravenladyj you are one of the luckiest person in the world to have such husband. I'll tell you one secret. In my case also mostly my husband will give up.
:-))
@chantalgiardina (2523)
• United States
9 Nov 09
My husband almost always gives up before i do, Im hard headed and feel the need to be right. i can argue all day long when i have the right reason/discussion lol.
@neelimaravi (1793)
• India
6 Nov 09
hi priya, most of the time my hubby will give up. he will get angry first and immediatly it will stop within sec. but i can't control my angry, i just want to talk to him atleast half day. he will round behind me to talk to him. first he only start the war. i use to tell why simply starting the war and comedown with in sec. he just laugh and go to his room. thanks for the topic, have a nice day
