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why women are shy to initiate anything? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 55/100. kush20006 (336)   ranked 2,975 out of 19,055 in questions & answers3 weeks ago

i want to ask why a girl is always shy to make the first move?

 
 
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msfrancisco9369 (1693) response was accepted on 11/8/2009.
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1. myLot reputation of 94/100. rg0205 (1718)   ranked 789 out of 19,055 in questions & answers   3 weeks ago

Not all women are like that. It depends. Just as if I would ask "why men are shy to initiate anything?"


myLot reputation of 55/100. kush20006 (336)   ranked 2,975 out of 19,055 in questions & answers  3 weeks ago

you are right rg but the things always moreover happen to be the same as i say?

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. msfrancisco9369 (1693)   ranked 333 out of 19,055 in questions & answers   3 weeks ago

Hi Kush,

I think this depends on one's culture and values. There are some girls who are more comfortable expressing themselves in whatever ways. Let's just respect their decisions and readiness for something "intimate" to happen.


myLot reputation of 55/100. kush20006 (336)   ranked 2,975 out of 19,055 in questions & answers  3 weeks ago

but one more thing even if the culture and values are considerd to be there
you might have seen very few ladies come forward as leaders and those who come are only wifes or related to big leaders


myLot reputation of 98/100. msfrancisco9369 (1693)   ranked 333 out of 19,055 in questions & answers  3 weeks ago

sorry i got confused... what do you mean by that?


myLot reputation of 95/100. marguicha (3454)   ranked 89 out of 19,055 in questions & answers  3 weeks ago

I could give you a big list of women that have been, or are, leaders in the world. In my country, the president is a woman. It has happenned in many countries. There are wonderful women in all trades and roles in society.


myLot reputation of 98/100. msfrancisco9369 (1693)   ranked 333 out of 19,055 in questions & answers  3 weeks ago

Ah ok. So women can be successful in their own simple way and can even lead despite stereo-typing women to be shy and powerless.


myLot reputation of 98/100. msfrancisco9369 (1693)   ranked 333 out of 19,055 in questions & answers  3 weeks ago

Ah ok. So women can be successful in their own simple way and can even lead despite stereo-typing women to be shy and powerless.


myLot reputation of 55/100. kush20006 (336)   ranked 2,975 out of 19,055 in questions & answers  3 weeks ago

but tell me one thing still they cant initiate
mind the word initiate


myLot reputation of 98/100. msfrancisco9369 (1693)   ranked 333 out of 19,055 in questions & answers  3 weeks ago

Women can initiate---I know of some women very successful in life and they are really an initiator. I am one of them. Initiator in a lot of things-- career, projects and more!

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3. myLot reputation of 85/100. paleorainy (573)   ranked 987 out of 19,055 in questions & answers   3 weeks ago

Lol, you say so until you'll find one that will pin you to the floor! lol Just joking, lol. rasp I think we're kind of shy because we generally feel unsafe and also because it's more comfortable if it's someone else initiating.
In time I learnt initiating more, but it's still difficult, I always think if I'm doing something wrong and I fear rejection. That's happened just a couple of times but I am scared of that and how I'd feel then. Men seem to take that much better!whistle


myLot reputation of 55/100. kush20006 (336)   ranked 2,975 out of 19,055 in questions & answers  3 weeks ago

but tell me why it happens that girls think that they can sue the boys when they are second

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4. linda1959 (45)   ranked 5,957 out of 19,055 in questions & answers   3 weeks ago

Dear Kush20006,
Girls are not shy, if only you could read there mines.(lol)
Girls always want the guy to make the first move all ways.

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