How Can You Say No to Someone You've Been In love with Before?
By eurekafemme
@eurekafemme (5874)
Philippines
November 7, 2009 7:25am CST
My ex boyfriend found my profile in FB.We were sweethearts during college days. But we separated because I wasn't ready for a more intimate relationship with him. Nevertheless, I loved him, then. Now, that we are communicating again, he persistently inviting me to see him. I asked him Why and he just told me he wanted to see me. There were times during our small talks that he still cares about me and that he is missing me. He is married but his relationship is on a shaky ground.The careless part of me wants to see him, too. But the better part of me tells that it is pointless and doing so will only tempt fate. How to discourage this guy in a way of not hurting him? I still want to keep the friendship...
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@shadow41 (2351)
• Philippines
7 Nov 09
Hello eureka. I think the best thing for you to do is ignore your ex. He's already married and as a man I can sense that he's up to something with you. But if you really want to keep your friendship with him then just always remember that he's married and it's never been good to be just a mistress.
shadow41
@eurekafemme (5874)
• Philippines
8 Nov 09
Thank you for the wise comment, shadow. I am very much on guard of my actions toward him because I know he is married. I don't want to cause any trouble between him and his wife. I still have my sanity intact. :-)
