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myLot reputation of 89/100. eurekafemme (148)   ranked 249 out of 2,035 in been in love3 weeks ago

My ex boyfriend found my profile in FB.We were sweethearts during college days. But we separated because I wasn't ready for a more intimate relationship with him. Nevertheless, I loved him, then. Now, that we are communicating again, he persistently inviting me to see him. I asked him Why and he just told me he wanted to see me. There were times during our small talks that he still cares about me and that he is missing me. He is married but his relationship is on a shaky ground.The careless part of me wants to see him, too. But the better part of me tells that it is pointless and doing so will only tempt fate. How to discourage this guy in a way of not hurting him? I still want to keep the friendship...

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 90/100. shadow41 (787)   ranked 1,891 out of 2,035 in been in love   3 weeks ago

Hello eureka. I think the best thing for you to do is ignore your ex. He's already married and as a man I can sense that he's up to something with you. But if you really want to keep your friendship with him then just always remember that he's married and it's never been good to be just a mistress.

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myLot reputation of 89/100. eurekafemme (148)   ranked 249 out of 2,035 in been in love  3 weeks ago

Thank you for the wise comment, shadow. I am very much on guard of my actions toward him because I know he is married. I don't want to cause any trouble between him and his wife. I still have my sanity intact.:-)

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. muscles4me (8503)   ranked 520 out of 2,035 in been in love   3 weeks ago

Remember now, he is MARRIED. Yea he SAYS the relationship is on shakey groud but is it really? If you are in the same town the perhaps meet him for a cup of coffee in a public place. Tell him you believe in marriag and he should do whatever it takes to make his marriage work. Good luck.


myLot reputation of 89/100. eurekafemme (148)   ranked 249 out of 2,035 in been in love  3 weeks ago

hello, muscles4me. Nope, i'm not contemplating of seeing him. However, I am so tired saying "no" to his every invitation. Thanks.:-)


myLot reputation of 98/100. muscles4me (8503)   ranked 520 out of 2,035 in been in love  3 weeks ago

Good for you. Next time just tell him to stop asking you because you do not plan on changing your mind.

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. eLsMarie (1131)   ranked 1,043 out of 2,035 in been in love   2 weeks ago

the thing there was that he's already married so ignore him. you shouldn't settle for anything less my dear. he's your ex and it means that he's already a part of your past so find somebody else who'll prioritize you and not somebody else.

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