This is tough..... I hope this works out right. What do you think?

See to me I think it would be the best thing. I have been a huge part of his life since we found out about him. My husband was never married to her. We had split for 8 months while we were alot younger and she was 2 months pregnant with their son and never told him until the baby was 18 months old. Then a year later my husband got custody. Thank you for your response.

Oh yes, I have truely grown to love the North Country. I am going to cry when we do move. I have made such wonderful friends up here as well as my children. I do miss Connecticut in a way... But it's just not the same as up here. Thank you for your response. It is a hard descison to make that will last a life time. I am going to make the best of what I have.

May I ask what brought you up this way? I didn't have much choice, my parents wanted a change of scenery for us ( I was living in Torrington....nuff said) and I was a teen at the time.

We moved up here so my husband could get custody of his son... which it did work too. The only way he could get even attempt to get custody was if he lived in town so that's just what we did. Now... On to the Torrington part.... that is just funny as all crap!! I'm origionally from Barkhamsted! haha so we probably have crossed paths at a point in time lmao.

lol...not in CT though, I was living up her before you were born...
I remember barkampsted though, nice place. There was a private camp ground there decades ago my family used a lot, place called "Warner's Grove", doubt it's there any more though.

Ohhh. Yeah there is White Pines and Peoples state foreset. It is a nice place though.

OMG! OMG! PEOPLES!!!!! I LOVED peoples! I was an avid "tuber", it was a great place to launch. Used to do the george a lot....lol prolly a lot smaller than I remember it, I was young then but it seemed like a pretty intense ride back then.

lmao I'm sorry but you seriously just made my day. I cant stop laughing. But yes peoples is still a pretty busy place. The water isnt too deep though. One place I used to love going as a young teen was Santans Kingdom in New Hartford. That place was pretty great too.

Satans kingdom was a BLAST, scared the hell out of me but still a blast and yes, I did that in a tube too, lol...we were a wreckless lot.
Anwya, glad to have made ya chuckle....I was just tickeled to hear about the place again, so many memories there. Used to camp across the river too at american legion, it wasn't fancy but it was camping and it was on the river.

They were never married. They were together for just 8 months. We were together for 2 years split for 8 months and got back together. But thank you for your response. I hope everything works out too and I cant wait to have a judge that wont just feel sorry for her. I think things will go much smoother.

I hope that the judge can see past her lies and take this child into consideration for his better welfare. I think this child should be with you and your husband, this woman sounds like she is full of BS and has the judge wrapped around her finger. I think I would request another judge can't you do that? Any way that child would be better off in a family environment and learning the good values of life. Good luck and hope things works out real soon!