what is the meanest thing you have ever said behind a girls back?

hi i have said about one's bad words in my life, she is the woman who took my boyfriend away from me although she known that he had me at that time. when i found them being together, i was so angry and i hated them, but i just said to my boyfriend, i could not understand you aparted with me for her. no dirty words, but most my friends said she is not a good woman.

as much as possible, i try not to say things that i know would hurt anyone. but if provoked, who am i control myself then. although i know im going to be the bigger person... everyone gets impulsive when angry. as for the questions, the meanest thing i said behind a girl's back is B**CH. in front, much worse... hehe! no seriously... i usually say things what i feel to the person in a nice way... (as much as possible) but if he/she cant take it, its not my fault anymore... :)

Well I have never said anything nasty to anyone lately, or said anything about them behind there back. Okay sure I'd tell maybe my brother, or my cousin that I'm really close to, but I wouldn't tell anyone to make them purposely against her. I can say that even though in high school I wasn't really those kind of people to back stab, I probably did say some things now and then about people when I was feeling very angry, but that's only because they started the rumors about me, and well, why should you accept a fake rumor about yourself and be treated badly? No one should.

Good behaviour! Everyone should do it like you. No one like to be criticised behind back. But if you express your admiration or praise behind someone, that should be fine.