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elrener (95)   ranked 812 out of 936 in relationships1 month ago

Had a bf and we dated for like 2 years and i moved to sweden to study. So we had a struggle to keep our relationship working. SO in the end we broke up but deicided if we saw each other we woudl give it a try. So he text me as usual saying he loves med etc. then i asked him lets get back together his ans was no. SO i got suspicious. Apparently he had a GF but has no feelings for her wat so ever and still loves me????
I mean is this love???
Cause i definitely dont love him anymore. But i just need to hear from your own opinion.

 
 
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tags:  love, girlfriend, relationship, broke up, true
 
1. myLot reputation of 96/100. maria120883 (162)   1 month ago

well i would say no that it is not love. a man that loves you and you ask him to get back together with you he will not hesitate to say yes!!! no matter in what situation they are in. you have to grab the bull by the horns and get what you want. so if he wanted to get with you and thought that there was a chance to be with you he wouldn't have said no. and plus he has a girl which means he has moved on or is trying to.

goodluck.

p.s. let him go there are more fish in the sea. my mama always says what is yours is yours and no one will take what ever it is from you no matter the situation.


happy mylotting

maria s.


elrener (95)   ranked 812 out of 936 in relationships  1 month ago

Hehe...Thnks for your response. Lots of wise things that got me thinking.
So i guess you're right if he loves me, he'll come back. But i guess his not.


Thks Maria!

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2. myLot reputation of 84/100. mdaazam (227)   1 month ago

Its quite possible somehow but if hes the one refusing then maybe maria is right:)
actually i was dumped by my girl friend and we were into this for 1.5 years but i was deeply in love with her and she dumped me because i was suffering from a bit depression emerged from home issues instead of being a helping hand . Yeah i was broken badly, ever since then i have stopped loving faithfully to anyone and im dating a new girl from my college and shes prettier but im still in love with my ex one . Even i have her and will never forgive her for leaving me when i needed her but still i cant think about anyone the way i do for her . Thats a love, but maybe your case here is different as i cant judge the guy . .
Good luck anyway!


elrener (95)   ranked 812 out of 936 in relationships  1 month ago

I know right even if they have hurt your feelings you cant stop thinking of them...SAME HERE. It's crazy i use to let to so easy but now it's seem i'm always thinking of him. I mean i had so many wonderful memories with him and now its over i just dont know what to do. So yeah its really complicated....Love!

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3. DeliasDowntime (18)   1 month ago

Sounds like a very immature man. I'm glad you dumped him. Stick to your guns. God knows how many women this guy is texting. Better to wait and find a good one, enjoy being single and not burdened with a cheat.


elrener (95)   ranked 812 out of 936 in relationships  1 month ago

Thanks for your sweet comment.
I really appreciate it alot

:D Ellie

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4. jjserrano (6)   4 weeks ago

"love knows no distance" this is true because a true love even though your far away from each others theirs a feeling that connects the two of you!. "TRUST EACH Other" is the fundamental ingredient of a perfect relationship.You and your boyfriend didn't establish a good relationship you just think of what's for now?you didn't thought for what will happen to us the next years.what you felt right now is not love anymore try to move on and open your heart to another man and think of your experience as a lesson that you did learn from it!.

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