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myLot reputation of 80/100. bubblepink (439)   ranked 3,831 out of 23,154 in relationships4 weeks ago

Guys, please don't lie. We know that most people prefer Beauty than intelligence. No both because we know It's rare. I heard it from this mornings radio show. Dumb women are always showered by everything. Can you agree with that? It was so funny to talk about people pretending to answer that they still prefer smart women without beauty than beautiful women without brains. I am not talking in general but let's say it's a bit of majority. Just a funny thought.

 
 
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vincyk (159) response was accepted on 11/10/2009.
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tags:  beauty, intelligence, people, life, choice
 
1. elrener (95)   4 weeks ago

I would say both. Heheh


myLot reputation of 96/100. maria120883 (162)   ranked 6,547 out of 23,154 in relationships  4 weeks ago

SMART GUY!!! lol!! YOU SURE KNOW WHAT TO SAY!! LOL!!

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HAPPY MYLOTTING

MARIA S.


myLot reputation of 80/100. bubblepink (439)   ranked 3,831 out of 23,154 in relationships  4 weeks ago

Did I say not to vote on both? HAHA! I know many will say BOTH! Safe answer.. but nah ah.. NO BOTH please! This is about decision making LOL!

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2. myLot reputation of 91/100. anotherxidentity (880)   ranked 1,248 out of 23,154 in relationships   4 weeks ago

I do believe that men want beautiful women with no brains than women with brains is because of the tendency for women that are extremely intelligent who are considered to have no beauty also are considered to not really care for themselves. I say this because they are normally the ones that are seen in clothes which are dated and make them look frumpy and it doesn't cost much money to look a little bit decent. I know its part of the reason I refuse to date fat people - I don't think they care enough to be concerned for their health so I don't see them as having good qualities and therefore if they can't have good qualities for themselves they surely can't bring good qualities to a relationship.

But overall I think men do prefer women who are decent looking - average, but are still smart. And its not hard to do so I refuse to argue with it.


myLot reputation of 80/100. bubblepink (439)   ranked 3,831 out of 23,154 in relationships  4 weeks ago

Good answer! How can you be so smart if atleast you don't make yourself decent right? But the topic was asking about women who are so sexy, boobie, really pretty without brains. LOL! I got it from the radio show and they are talking about woman whom you can really act so dumb and pointless. All they care about is their face taking advantage of rich men! haha

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3. myLot reputation of 90/100. neo_matrix (437)   ranked 8,817 out of 23,154 in relationships   4 weeks ago

the reality is ya for guys looks matter the most...intelligent women threaten their masculinity hence are liked by few guys who are upto bigger challenges.but basically the guys profess themselves to be simple beings hence beauty comes with lesser complications than the intelligent ones.


myLot reputation of 80/100. bubblepink (439)   ranked 3,831 out of 23,154 in relationships  4 weeks ago

yes men sometimes are afraid to be overpowered by woman. Their pride and ego.

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. maria120883 (162)   ranked 6,547 out of 23,154 in relationships   4 weeks ago

well i am not a guy but i see what you mean. i wouldn't think that the guys that were calling the radio were lying because they are on the radio and no one knows who they are so they have no reason to lie.

but!!!!!!!! they might say what they think is right and in the end they really are just want a beautiful girl with no brains to show her off or something.


i have had guy friends that really show that they rather be with a gurl with brains other than beauty. it is a turn off to them to be with a gurl that has nothing to conversate about.

so i guess there is little of everything here in this world.

have a good day

maria s.


myLot reputation of 80/100. bubblepink (439)   ranked 3,831 out of 23,154 in relationships  4 weeks ago

exactly. The DJ is a real meanie but it's just because he is prank. Most callers you can easily tell those lies. He just put down the phone and say "what a liar". I love their morning show so much. Very entertaining.

and about the topic. I agree with that. I mean, what can you get from the physical aspects when you are so dumb and don't have any common sense at all?

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5. myLot reputation of 79/100. SouravRC (228)   ranked 21,191 out of 23,154 in relationships   4 weeks ago

I think it depends on individuals. Beauty with or without brain always remains beautiful and that attracts. So you cannot undermine the beauty aspect. At the same time intelligence is what makes people really beautiful. I think beauty with brain is a better option.

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6. demo22 (17)   ranked 20,314 out of 23,154 in relationships   4 weeks ago

The relaity check will always be tilted towards looks as guyd do prefer looks.However as a matter of fact noone would like to get marreid to a girl with no brain.So I would say although beauty and brain is very hard to go together yet there is a possibility that guys will go for looks at the first shot.

Personally speaking I will prefer average look but smart and intelligent girl.I am really lucky to get someone like that (of course my wife!!!)So guys you decide what you want a short term gain in terms of bright look or a long term gain in terms of smart head.Choice is yours!!!


myLot reputation of 80/100. bubblepink (439)   ranked 3,831 out of 23,154 in relationships  4 weeks ago

congratulations! you both are sure smart to have each other. It is really hard to find. Especially if you are stupid just like the brainless beauty. lol


myLot reputation of 97/100. agv0419 (2121)   ranked 4,231 out of 23,154 in relationships  4 weeks ago

The reality is all of us want a good looking wife or husband because it makes us proud if we are with them. I think it depends on a person and what they are preferences. Sometimes intelligent people also want intellectual people.

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7. myLot reputation of 40/100. farazkh1 (718)   ranked 13,226 out of 23,154 in relationships   4 weeks ago

Brainless women is useless,no matter how beautyful she is but when she don't know how to maintain herself and what is the way live,what is a true love etc.. then she will not be able to share the real pleasure of life.however personally i prefer (more beauty with less intelligence)the formula for the women of my life rather extra ordinary smart women who would do anything for lust and pleasure.!

less smart women are more loving,because they lack meterialism as compare to beautyqueens......


myLot reputation of 80/100. bubblepink (439)   ranked 3,831 out of 23,154 in relationships  4 weeks ago

I thought less smart women are more materialistic because they are willing to do anything you asked them to do for pleasure and money. Smart women means not so freaky geek and witchy women. They are the one who knows how to handle money and love with proper knowledge.

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. dracoserpintenes (248)   4 weeks ago

ha u'll think i'm lying but i'm not i pick smarts over anything.i know most people just say smarts but they end up with stupid but pretty bimbos if they do that they deserve to be with stupid. only a few of my friends would be considered pretty but the majority of them are very smart. i'm generally considered pretty but i don't want to be because ignorant pretty boys hit on me all the time and the guys i really like are usually afraid to talk to me its kinda depressing:( i think i fell into a good relationship tho because i feel i have a balance of both even if they are in an insane shell but you gotta make a compromise somewhere:)


myLot reputation of 80/100. bubblepink (439)   ranked 3,831 out of 23,154 in relationships  4 weeks ago

yes you have a point. It's really hard to find a very good partner right now. Most people nowadays only wanted to play.


myLot reputation of 98/100. dracoserpintenes (248)  4 weeks ago

i do make a small effort to crush the egos of those players their the scum of the earth just above the scum that abuse animals for fun.

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9. myLot reputation of 73/100. TickleMeBreathless (267)   ranked 6,307 out of 23,154 in relationships   4 weeks ago

Haha I would say both, but if I had to choose I would choose someone with intelligence. You can only look at someone with beauty for so long, but intelligence makes good conversation, and I could talk forever haha!


myLot reputation of 80/100. bubblepink (439)   ranked 3,831 out of 23,154 in relationships  4 weeks ago

I love it! Good sense of humor!

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10. buzzjunky85 (50)   ranked 21,936 out of 23,154 in relationships   4 weeks ago

It depends how stupid and how beautiful. I would choose somewhere in between, I don't
want a very nice women because it can bring trouble lol. and I don't want a woman smarter than me.

You can't choose between beauty or Intelligence they are both crucial qualities. If she's really intelligent and then no looks there is no attraction.

If there is top beauty and no brains the attraction is time limited!


myLot reputation of 80/100. bubblepink (439)   ranked 3,831 out of 23,154 in relationships  4 weeks ago

come to think of it. If you are intelligent then you can have a very good life in terms of wealthy and balance in a relationship. For me, I don't care if a man do not have the looks, as long as he has a good sense of humor that's okay. And to think, there are a lot of ways to look good, by dressing up, surgeries, medicine, or just help him improve himself. Any who, physical attractions don't last when you get older. This is why there are many relationships being broken because when the woman gets old, the man looks for younger and beautiful woman. But if you got the smart and very loving wife, what more can you ask for. Just being with her good companion is sure worthy!


buzzjunky85 (50)   ranked 21,936 out of 23,154 in relationships  4 weeks ago

When the couple grow old both of them the beauty fades away for both so they still se each other beautiful..
but if there is no spark at a young age how is it gonna last forever?


myLot reputation of 80/100. bubblepink (439)   ranked 3,831 out of 23,154 in relationships  4 weeks ago

i don't like the word forever because we all know that in reality, we cannot have each other forever. I'd rather say friendship or companionship will last long for couples and you wouldn't want beauty and whatever you call it with someone new.

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