Is it right to apologized even if it's not your fault?
By careguarden
@careguarden (5670)
Philippines
November 10, 2009 7:49pm CST
I've known someone who is very kind that sometimes even though it's not his fault he often apologized just to end the argument and settle everything. It's quite a rare attitude, but sometimes I was thinking about those people who's responsible and who should apologized they might go on thinking that they're right. What do you think? Do you apologized even if it's not your fault? or only when it's your mistake?
3 responses
@vhinzstrife (771)
• Philippines
11 Nov 09
sometimes i apologize even if it's not my fault... because it's the only way an issue can be dropped and end... also sometimes it's the only way to make your partner say sorry too...
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
11 Nov 09
You're right sometimes it's the only way that the person who's responsible makes him/her apologized. When one give way and humble one self the argument come to an end.
Thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
11 Nov 09
my work mate and i had a massive fight a while back, he took stuffing around to far. while i was trying get him to take a hint, i wasn't in the mood for it. we both said things in the heat of the moment. we both appologised the next morning, but didn't really talk much for the next week. things were back to normal with in a few weeks.
@blessing2u (496)
• Philippines
11 Nov 09
It is not wrong to apologize even if its not our fault. I admire those people who is like someone you mentioned, who is humble enough to do the difficult part which is to apologize. If the other party cannot accept his fault, then it is not bad at all to end the argument by asking for an apology. Of course, in the process, lessons are learned which is good.
