Pessimism, what do you do?

@hireshd (490)
India
November 17, 2009 9:09am CST
Hi friends what approach you have in your life when your life is filled with pessimism, you have no success in anything you do, you do not geel satisfied after doing anything, you always complain about your life.
2 responses
@fornalina (156)
• Poland
17 Nov 09
I always try to avoid pessimistic thoughts, because they make you see the things even worse than they really are. I'm a born optimist so I try to see the bright side of a problem, but sometimes you find yourself in a situation with no possible bright sides and then what to do? Be strong, that's the only way. Life is not easy, we must admit this (unless you are a child of a billionare and you really don't have to worry about future) there will be many times when you will stumble, fail and you will have to have strenth to get up and continue walking. But from where get this strengh? When I find myself in those situations I always think about good things that happen to me, that I want to see more of them, feel more warmth but to do that I must get up. It really helps.
@Godmother (476)
• Indonesia
17 Nov 09
You still have a long way ahead of you to create stairs and reach for the sky. Success is not done in a minute. It takes a lot of failure, a lot of getting up and trying again. Look around you, there are worse people, and there are real losers. Real Losers are the one that don't have the guts to stand up and try again, therefore they hide and do boring things, and pretend they don't like anybody. What you must do is stop complaining. Complaining every day is like hypnotizing yourself everyday that everything is bad, while it really is not. It's just how you see things. Read good books, see happy movies, relax and enjoy a good sport. And don't set your goals too high, because if it's too high, you might not be able to fulfill it in a short time, an end up disappointed again. Good luck