In, anything, do you look for the flaws or do you look for the beauty?

@Jenaisle (16568)
Philippines
November 20, 2009 7:00pm CST
There are people when in a given situation or when seeing something, they tend to look for the flaws or errors or to be critical. Are you this type of person? Or are you someone who tries to look for the beautiful and good in any situation? Which one are you, can you tell me why you do that? Your inputs would make other readers learn as to the inner machinations of your mind. For me, I try to look for the beauty, if the flaws could not be ignored, then it should be mentioned properly and then with a recommendation on how to do it better.
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
21 Nov 09
I have this belief that it's best to look for the beauty of things, but not the beauty of someone totally. There's a difference there, and I have heeded those or reminded myself most of the time, if not all, for that matter. Life in itself is actually very unpredictable, things that we think might happen, won't and those that we think might not happen, will. It can be for both good and bad, and we just have to go through it no matter what. When it comes to churning out the good from the evil, I prefer to look for the good side of things first, before analyzing the not so good things or attributes of someone. It can also be in any given situation and I'll still use this practicality of thought. Good topic.. :)=
@bwanna (282)
• United States
21 Nov 09
I can, most of the time, find something good or beautiful about someone or something. At the same time, though, I see the person's bad things. It's really confusing, but I try to keep all of the good things in my mind.