Do most of your friends come and go?
By becdmd
@becdmd (704)
Philippines
November 25, 2009 6:30am CST
I don't really have a lot of friends...I just have few good old friends but sad almost all of them went to other countries to work and others to live there for good...I can say I face the fact that friends come and go, but that doesn't mean our connection stopped...good thing we have facebook account and ym to keep us get in touch with our friends...but on some occasion...I also encountered friends who really come and go...who at first get in touch with you...but all of a sudden when you get close and get to know more of each other...they go and stop connecting with you...strange isn't it? do you also have friends like that?
3 responses
@soledadclickz (1106)
• Philippines
25 Nov 09
Hi. I could relate to your post. Most of my closest friends are now working abroad. But I believe that I did not really lost them. The special connection would always be there. In case of need, we could still care and help one another. Just like you, we often communicate thru YM, facebook and other social networking sites.
@agv0419 (3021)
• Philippines
26 Nov 09
I also relate to your situation because my friends also come and go. Sometimes I'm sad because I don't have communication anymore to my friends. I miss our friendship and the things we like to do. If only I can turn back the time but I can't. I have few friends and that's why I want to find new friends that can understand me.
@soledadclickz (1106)
• Philippines
26 Nov 09
Hi agv0419. Wherever your goods friends are right now, I'm sure they still remember you. If you have a way of reconnecting with them, please do. I have found many of my long lost friends and colleagues thru the social networking sites like friendster and facebook.
Life must go on with or without our friends around. It may be a good time to start establishing new friendships with the people around you. I hope you'll find new good friends soon.
@braveheart07 (2601)
• Philippines
25 Nov 09
Like you, I have a few good old friends and best friends (frenzkada). We're really close and have a great bonding especially when we were still in elementary and high school. When we went to college, everything has changed. We don't see each other as much as we do when we're still in h.s. The reason is because they were enrolled in other university or state colleges. At that time, we only communicate via text messaging.
Years have passed, we lost communication. Some of them went to other countries already, same as your situation though. Others have gotten married and became busy with their own family. It is really a sad thing to know that friends really come and go. It is a reality and does happen to anyone or everybody.
The good thing is, when someone goes away, a new one will come. I believe friends are really part in our life. Perhaps, some or most of us can't live without friends because friends are blessings. They are usually there for us in times of our deepest sorrow and trouble.
Have a great day becdmd! Nice topic. Keep it up!!!
@becdmd (704)
• Philippines
27 Nov 09
thanks for the response! yup, I agree with you if someone goes away, someone new will always come...We should be prepared, because we will never know how long our relationship to our friend would last...so cherish each day and every moment we share to other person.
@mrssator2002 (281)
• Philippines
25 Nov 09
When my friends come in my life I accepted them wide. But we can control the something like they have to leave but I dont consider them as in go. We still friends near or far. But the people who come and go in my life and stop connecting me I dont consider them as one of my friend. I dont care if I have few friends at least one of them is true.
